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I recently replied to an ad about dominants crying. What are your thoughts?

sir… I have been in the lifestyle about 15 years… my conclusion: when we (Dommes & Doms) perform well our submissive counterparts settle deep into “sub-space”, yes?
Well I have paid particular attention to my own mind and emotions… I venture into a state I call “Dom-space”. I am Hyper-vigilant, hyper-sensitive, hyper-aware, and hyper-focused. I have videoed sessions where each was appropriately “spaced” and it was impressive to watch, even my subs comment of how focused I was…
And furthermore… my “aftercare” was very different from hers… I needed to know she was ok… I needed to reassure myself she was highly tended to… in retrospect, ensuring her, my sub’s, aftercare was significantly more important than my recovery aftercare… if my explanation and experience are vague it’s because I’m still trying to understand… I have never heard any Domme or Dom mention this phenomenon. Has anyone?