BDSM Dating in Chicago

I'd like to meet someone in Chicago who wants to check out some kinky events in town, as well as get together & see if there's a spark. Read this, then read my profile. My kinks are there.

I want you to get to know my body & mind before we use restraints or gags. I want you to be curious about my fantasies, turn ons, etc. before we get into any "scenes."

Familiarity, vulnerability, intimacy...all of that feeds the play, & I'm looking for deeply satisfying play time, not just "kinky." I want to be fulfilled by the kink I'm engaging in. Otherwise I'm just an accessory to your experience. And that's not what I want. Even if you say I'm a toy (and I love to hear it) I really want the play to be informed by what gets me off to experience & hear from you. We're pretending I'm your toy. I'm actually a person.

Looking forward to hearing about your fantasies & potentially exploring them together.