BDSM Dating in Chicago

Does everyone know that by default you might be preventing available (maybe even compatible?) kinky kinksters from getting in touch?

If you go to your profile settings > message filters you'll see the options for who can message you. One option is "upgraded kinksters". If this is selected then only people who have paid for a subscription will be able to send you messages.
Some may want that but, alternatively, you might be preventing "the one" from getting in touch ¯_(ツ)_/¯

P.S. Note to the people I messaged when I was new here, didn't have a kinky clue, and only sent a one-word "Hey" in my initial message -
I was ignorant and didn't know any better. Please forgive me.