BDSM Dating in Brooklyn

Hey, I’m Randy, I live in NYC, and I am 54. I am monogamous, but I am also unconventional, not traditional, not into heteronormative gender roles, and strongly anti-patriarchy.

I’m really interested in meeting either FWB or potential partner who enjoys vaginal fisting and/or extreme dildo play. Preferably 40 YO or older, average body or thin, in NYC (but preferably Brooklyn).