BDSM Dating in Portland

My name is brandon, i remember my first time seeing a spanking program on cable When I was 11 years old, I spent the next couple years locked in my room spanking myself lol. I've been opening and out about it for 15 years. I've been in 2 relationships where it was incorporated into the relationship. I started out as the spanker but I found I enjoy structured strong minded woman to role play and Keep me in check. I'm a dominant guy in everyday life. I love my pets.I have a green thumb with a tiny apartment with over 50 houseplants, i Love the outdoors, luve shows.i'm not here to fall in love quick. I don't want to fall at All, things that fall break. I wanna grow in love with someone,things like grow get stronger.