BDSM Dating in Upper Darby

I'm looking for something long term. A girl who is sweet, and likes cats. Also likes having her feet massaged. Of course I give other massages and have been told I'm pretty good at them. I'm a decent listener so I will actually listen to how things are going. If you want a semi loser that might drink a little too much when he's got a job, I might be your man. I also cook some pretty decent eggs, mac and cheese and ramen.