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I am 33 years old and divorced/single. I have a shaved head and beard, tattoos, and a septum ring. Elder emo/alternative style. I’ve previously been a dom, but i’m curious to explore my sub side. This is not just a kink for me, but a lifestyle. I need a 24/7 dynamic. I’ve been getting to know my puppy side lately and enjoy wearing my tails and collars.

I am seeking a woman age 18-40, preferably a gentle femdom gf or soft dommy mommy type. I do need lots of love and praise and attention and validation. I also need someone who is strict and can be a bully and keep me feeling weak. I like having rules and schedules and tasks. I would love to have a relationship outside the dynamic where we can just talk and have fun, too. I’d prefer a long-term partner instead of a nsa situation. If you’re local, that’s great. I travel a lot for work, so I’m also okay with online.

Interests include chastity, edging, denial, ruined orgasms, anal play, throat play, cbt, tpe, ***, pet play, cei, and more.

I have very few limits, and will try just about anything once. My big ones are public, scat, and changing my appearance.