Find kinky women in Calgary

I’m a confident and experienced Mistress who enjoys control, respect, and obedience. I love exploring desires, pushing limits, and creating unforgettable experiences. I know my worth, and I expect to be treated accordingly. What I’m Here For I’m here for genuine subs who understand what it means to submit, not time-wasters. If you crave structure, discipline, and pleasure under control, you’ll find exactly what you’re looking for with me.
Female (30) Calgary, Alberta
just sneaking a peak for now have some cause to go slow, with anxiety around attention and guys, so please don’t text me unless I dm you first. thank you
Female (38) Calgary, Alberta
Looking for some kinky fun. I'm submissive and like to be used **Desires and Fantasies** To be used however you see fit. No marks. And no bodily fluids
Female (34) Calgary, Alberta
Into pretty much anything open book ask away. Love to dress in lingerie, love to help fulfill fantasies/ fetishes. Prefer discreet. Love to help you out hit me up ?
Female (32) Calgary, Alberta
I am the type of person who wears my *** like stilettos. No matter how much it hurts, all you see is its beauty. I am soft and strong. I love to dress up for parties and wear my little silk robe around the house on weekends. Dancing and acting have always been my passions. My resilient nature allows me to remain determined, even in the face of adversity. With a natural authority, I inspire confidence in those around me, leading with both strength and compassion. I value stability and purpose, always striving to create an environment where everyone feels safe and respected and I want a man who will hold my hand in difficult times and tell me that everything will be okay. I want a man who will love me for my compassionate heart and beautiful soul, and then I will believe that I will become the most beautiful woman on his planet just for him. I am a woman who will cook dumplings for you, dance, prepare pleasant surprises for you when you return from work. I am a woman who will wait for you at the door with hugs, kisses and a happy smile. What do I want in return? I want my man to be faithful, loving, caring. I like it when a man makes me feel like I am the only woman in the world for him.
Female (44) Calgary, Alberta
I like men with a strong disposition, with whom I will feel like behind a stone wall. Who has the opportunity to defend me and support me in any life circumstances, who will inspire me and will always be there. Who will I feel safe with. I would like him to be conscientious and impudent.
Female (53) Calgary, Alberta
Hi! Just out here trying to build my bi forever harem :D I don’t know very much about kink but I have always wanted to learn and explore. I like to be in charge/take care of people, take it slow and intimate. Give you a bath, brush your hair, do a massage, take it from there. I’m not into *** or anything gross, and also demi so getting to know you makes everything spicier for me. Boundaries, communication, and mutual respect are a must! Maybe trying to grow my OnlyFans? Who knows!
Female (28) Calgary, Alberta
I am a submissive through and through (brat 😏). I am in an open relationship with my current partner and looking for potentially another partner if we click! I have a 15 month old son. I enjoy reading, horse back riding, hiking, video games, and writing amongst a bunch of other things. I’m awkward and super bad at doing these profiles so bear with me!
Female (26) Calgary, Alberta
Enjoy hanging out, 420, music, movies. I'm looking for a friends with benefits type deal. Must be ok with getting wet as I'm a squirter. Bonus if you're into *** play.
Female (40) Calgary, Alberta
I love getting stretchy with my boundaries and exploring with my partner. I love the life energy of my kinks and desires. We are looking for Bi men and woman. I do not desire to pay alone. I want my partner to also experience pleasure. Really looking for Bi-experienced men who want to play with both of us equally. My partner is hetero flexible and I find it very sexy if you are as well this is preferred to straight men. I want to explore more kinks, love getting dressed up and having the 'stage set'. Let's play!
Female (45) Calgary, Alberta
I'm seeking a playful and adventurous pay pig who enjoys the thrill of financial domination. I crave a dynamic where you willingly offer your support, while we explore the boundaries of pleasure and submission. I'm particularly drawn to those who understand that submission can be both fun and fulfilling.
Female (28) Calgary, Alberta
I’m a submissive brat and i like being spanked. I like being handcuffed to things. i have so much more things im into but you’ll need to talk to me to find out;)
Female (20) Calgary, Alberta
Hello! I’m here looking for discreet hookups! I’m a bit shy but I love sex and I have a few fantasies I want to make happen :3 Not looking for anything long term but if we vibe right then who knows
Female (21) Calgary, Alberta
I'm an experienced and eager slave/submissive, looking to serve the right, experienced Master/Dominant. Ideally seeking a long term, monogamish relationship where kink deepens our connection & love. Make no mistake, I'm kinky as fuck. I am interested in long term power exchange where I submit outside the bedroom to deepen pleasure & connection. I long please my Master & experience delicious subspace. I love long sessions/scenes involving bondage, dirty talk, intense impact play, roll play, edging, teasing & punishment/***. I am open to some public play. Definitely open to play parties & flogging demos.
Female (47) Calgary, Alberta
I am in a D/s dynamic with Rajdom. We practice ENM but that is not an open invitation to either or both of us. ***I am not currently looking to take on anyone else at the moment*** I am primal, sadomasochistic, and sapiosexual. I enjoy intelligent conversations with a true meeting of minds. I enjoy photography and artistry and I do both as a hobby and as an expression of my pygmalionism. I want to be clear that I am very new to Domming and am currently training and being mentored by my Dom in this respect. As such, I am not currently interested in Domming anyone solo. My Dom will be present during any play in a mentorship capacity until we both feel that I am ready to Domme solo both competently and safely. If this is not your cup of tea, then it is best that you focus your energies elsewhere. I currently live in Canada but travel for work and to spend time with my Dom. I am not interested in one night stands. I take my time getting to know people. All inquiries must go through my Dom. ——————————————————————————— Ich bin in einer D/s-Dynamik mit Rajdom. Alle Anfragen müssen über meinen Dom laufen. Deutsch ist nicht meine Muttersprache.
Female (42) Calgary, Alberta
**A Quick Note on Logistics & Compatibility** Life is a finite resource, and as an AuDHD creator, I manage mine with intention. Please read before messaging: * The Age Filter: I am 46. I am specifically seeking the grounded, quiet confidence that usually comes with life experience. I am only responding to partners 35 and older. * The 'Nice' Policy: I value kindness, but I do not have the energy to reply to every 'Hey' or 'Sexy' message. If I don't respond, please don't take it personally—it simply means the 'sub-text' wasn't there. * The Vibe: I’m looking for a specific frequency—think 'quiet authority' rather than 'performative dominance.' If you’ve read my 'Seeking' section and think you have the key to my subspace, please lead with something more than a greeting. Tell me something you find absurd. --- I’m an AFAB non-binary, AuDHD maker with a softly rounded body and a high capacity for intense sensation. I’m looking for a specific kind of quiet, grounded confidence—the kind that doesn't need to shout to be heard, but knows exactly how to put me on my knees. I value a Dom who can balance the 'Care' with the 'Absurd'; someone who will wipe away the tears and then push deeper because they know I can handle it and they know they want it. I'm aceflux, well-behaved, and thrive when I'm being used for someone else's amusement. If you have a sharp mind, a thick cock, and a desire to see what it takes to get me into subspace, I’m waiting to be reviewed. *There's a reference in this to my philosophy, a particular brand of absurdist care ethics that loosely connects with existentialism and absurdism.
Female (46) Calgary, Alberta
Submissive energy, curious mind, and a weakness for confident women. Exploring this side of myself and looking for someone who enjoys taking the lead and showing a willing girl a few new things.
Female (36) Calgary, Alberta
I’m pretty new to the scene so take it easy on me ;) I’m pretty shy and tend to get in my head therefore someone more dominant would be my s***d. HUGE praise kink. Super excited to learn new kinks and meet new people! I smoke weeeed, not ciggys thx
Female (24) Calgary, Alberta
im very new to this. I downloaded the app to start to explore the fet world, & ngl its a little overwhelming, so dont hate me if I ghost. I was expecting this to be a dating app, so im not interested in an online relationship sorry.
Female (28) Calgary, Alberta
new to these kind of sites, but I am a small town country girl looking to explore some new things. I am pretty open minded, and willing to try new things. very interested in the bdsm ends of things. I have found I am more of a submissive for sure.
Female (32) Calgary, Alberta
💋 Married | Bisexual | Polyamorous | Experienced Swinger | Exploring Power Dynamics Hi! I'm energetic, flirty, and fun—with a love for both connection and kink. My husband and I have been in the lifestyle for about 3 years. We’re very active in our local scene and love meeting open-minded, adventurous people. Swinging is still a favorite of mine, but I’m also exploring more D/s dynamics, especially with dominant women and men (or confident Switches). Solo or partnered, I'm always open to meaningful, respectful connections that blend fun, flirtation, and trust. I enjoy sensual, playful energy and am curious about deeper scenes—so long as communication and consent are front and center. Chemistry and vibe always come first. In my downtime? You’ll find me crafting, modeling, or curled up with a spicy book or anime series. Looking to connect with: – Couples & singles with good energy – Confident, respectful Doms or Switches – People who value consent, kindness, and curiosity Respect = Everything: ✅ Have a visible photo or profile info ✅ Lead with a respectful message ❌ No unsolicited pics or graphic messages ❌ No one-word intros or “hey sexy” types Let’s make magic—in conversation, in connection, and maybe beyond.
Female (34) Calgary, Alberta
ddlg little princess ❥ i’m looking for a daddy, or mommy to spoil me and tell me that im a cute little girl ♥ 3 holes and a brain that doesn’t work
Female (18) Calgary, Alberta
24 yrs old 420 friendly! Usually try to touch grass, make art or game on any given day. Personal blend of me; 1/4 Maple Syrup 1/4 Cannabis 2/4 SchizoFunnyHaha
Female (24) Calgary, Alberta
The *** Domme you wish you could get close enough to touch…but never will. degradees, sissies, and *** subs, approach on your knees👇🧎 I lead with purpose, intention and a complete self indulgence of my own pleasure, NOT yours. I value respect, communication, consent and obedience. Approach me with your manners out or simply never make it in.
Female (22) Calgary, Alberta

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I'm an experienced and eager slave/submissive, looking to serve the right, experienced Master/Dominant. Ideally seeking a long term, monogamish relationship where kink deepens our connection & love. Make no mistake, I'm kinky as fuck. I am interested in long term power exchange where I submit outside the bedroom to deepen pleasure & connection. I long please my Master & experience delicious subspace. I love long sessions/scenes involving bondage, dirty talk, intense impact play, roll play, edging, teasing & punishment/***. I am open to some public play. Definitely open to play parties & flogging demos.
Female (47) Calgary, Alberta
Hello! I’m here looking for discreet hookups! I’m a bit shy but I love sex and I have a few fantasies I want to make happen :3 Not looking for anything long term but if we vibe right then who knows
Female (21) Calgary, Alberta
I’m a confident and experienced Mistress who enjoys control, respect, and obedience. I love exploring desires, pushing limits, and creating unforgettable experiences. I know my worth, and I expect to be treated accordingly. What I’m Here For I’m here for genuine subs who understand what it means to submit, not time-wasters. If you crave structure, discipline, and pleasure under control, you’ll find exactly what you’re looking for with me.
Female (30) Calgary, Alberta
I like men with a strong disposition, with whom I will feel like behind a stone wall. Who has the opportunity to defend me and support me in any life circumstances, who will inspire me and will always be there. Who will I feel safe with. I would like him to be conscientious and impudent.
Female (53) Calgary, Alberta
I am the type of person who wears my *** like stilettos. No matter how much it hurts, all you see is its beauty. I am soft and strong. I love to dress up for parties and wear my little silk robe around the house on weekends. Dancing and acting have always been my passions. My resilient nature allows me to remain determined, even in the face of adversity. With a natural authority, I inspire confidence in those around me, leading with both strength and compassion. I value stability and purpose, always striving to create an environment where everyone feels safe and respected and I want a man who will hold my hand in difficult times and tell me that everything will be okay. I want a man who will love me for my compassionate heart and beautiful soul, and then I will believe that I will become the most beautiful woman on his planet just for him. I am a woman who will cook dumplings for you, dance, prepare pleasant surprises for you when you return from work. I am a woman who will wait for you at the door with hugs, kisses and a happy smile. What do I want in return? I want my man to be faithful, loving, caring. I like it when a man makes me feel like I am the only woman in the world for him.
Female (44) Calgary, Alberta
I’m a submissive brat and i like being spanked. I like being handcuffed to things. i have so much more things im into but you’ll need to talk to me to find out;)
Female (20) Calgary, Alberta
I'm seeking a playful and adventurous pay pig who enjoys the thrill of financial domination. I crave a dynamic where you willingly offer your support, while we explore the boundaries of pleasure and submission. I'm particularly drawn to those who understand that submission can be both fun and fulfilling.
Female (28) Calgary, Alberta
I love getting stretchy with my boundaries and exploring with my partner. I love the life energy of my kinks and desires. We are looking for Bi men and woman. I do not desire to pay alone. I want my partner to also experience pleasure. Really looking for Bi-experienced men who want to play with both of us equally. My partner is hetero flexible and I find it very sexy if you are as well this is preferred to straight men. I want to explore more kinks, love getting dressed up and having the 'stage set'. Let's play!
Female (45) Calgary, Alberta
just sneaking a peak for now have some cause to go slow, with anxiety around attention and guys, so please don’t text me unless I dm you first. thank you
Female (38) Calgary, Alberta
Hi! Just out here trying to build my bi forever harem :D I don’t know very much about kink but I have always wanted to learn and explore. I like to be in charge/take care of people, take it slow and intimate. Give you a bath, brush your hair, do a massage, take it from there. I’m not into *** or anything gross, and also demi so getting to know you makes everything spicier for me. Boundaries, communication, and mutual respect are a must! Maybe trying to grow my OnlyFans? Who knows!
Female (28) Calgary, Alberta
Into pretty much anything open book ask away. Love to dress in lingerie, love to help fulfill fantasies/ fetishes. Prefer discreet. Love to help you out hit me up ?
Female (32) Calgary, Alberta
Enjoy hanging out, 420, music, movies. I'm looking for a friends with benefits type deal. Must be ok with getting wet as I'm a squirter. Bonus if you're into *** play.
Female (40) Calgary, Alberta
Looking for some kinky fun. I'm submissive and like to be used **Desires and Fantasies** To be used however you see fit. No marks. And no bodily fluids
Female (34) Calgary, Alberta
I am a submissive through and through (brat 😏). I am in an open relationship with my current partner and looking for potentially another partner if we click! I have a 15 month old son. I enjoy reading, horse back riding, hiking, video games, and writing amongst a bunch of other things. I’m awkward and super bad at doing these profiles so bear with me!
Female (26) Calgary, Alberta
I’m pretty new to the scene so take it easy on me ;) I’m pretty shy and tend to get in my head therefore someone more dominant would be my s***d. HUGE praise kink. Super excited to learn new kinks and meet new people! I smoke weeeed, not ciggys thx
Female (24) Calgary, Alberta
im very new to this. I downloaded the app to start to explore the fet world, & ngl its a little overwhelming, so dont hate me if I ghost. I was expecting this to be a dating app, so im not interested in an online relationship sorry.
Female (28) Calgary, Alberta
hello! im just a woman looking for another woman or non binary to spend my time with I would love a connection before going further wanting fwb(friends is important), just dates, or a long term relationship. im newer to this kind of scene and honestly want cuddles and kisses
Female (20) Calgary, Alberta
I’m very well versed in online play, most of my kinks are on the extreme side. Looking for someone who is also interested in the darker rougher side of things. I enjoy *** and *** immensely. Message me & let’s play !
Female (34) Calgary, Alberta
Submissive energy, curious mind, and a weakness for confident women. Exploring this side of myself and looking for someone who enjoys taking the lead and showing a willing girl a few new things.
Female (36) Calgary, Alberta
I don't have a goal in mind, just going with the flow and hoping for the best I'm really into horror movies, ***ting, and I'm a huge *** lover 420 enjoyer lol
Female (20) Calgary, Alberta
I am only looking for women. Men who message me will be blocked. I may be submissive, but I have a high understanding of who I am and what I want. if you cannot respect that, then please kindly go.
Female (24) Calgary, Alberta
Happily married to a vanilla man who is open to me to finding another partner whose kink aligns with mine. I ignore time wasters. I WILL NOT REPLY TO ANYONE WHO IS NOT IN ALBERTA. I am not looking for anything online.
Female (34) Calgary, Alberta
I’m open minded and genuinely interested in exploring more, especially dynamics built on mutual respect, consent, clear communication, and emotional intelligence. I want something that feels safe but charged. Structured but spontaneous. Confident but not reckless. I currently enjoy online play and like knowing someone is tuned in, paying attention, and guiding intentionally.
Female (46) Calgary, Alberta
**A Quick Note on Logistics & Compatibility** Life is a finite resource, and as an AuDHD creator, I manage mine with intention. Please read before messaging: * The Age Filter: I am 46. I am specifically seeking the grounded, quiet confidence that usually comes with life experience. I am only responding to partners 35 and older. * The 'Nice' Policy: I value kindness, but I do not have the energy to reply to every 'Hey' or 'Sexy' message. If I don't respond, please don't take it personally—it simply means the 'sub-text' wasn't there. * The Vibe: I’m looking for a specific frequency—think 'quiet authority' rather than 'performative dominance.' If you’ve read my 'Seeking' section and think you have the key to my subspace, please lead with something more than a greeting. Tell me something you find absurd. --- I’m an AFAB non-binary, AuDHD maker with a softly rounded body and a high capacity for intense sensation. I’m looking for a specific kind of quiet, grounded confidence—the kind that doesn't need to shout to be heard, but knows exactly how to put me on my knees. I value a Dom who can balance the 'Care' with the 'Absurd'; someone who will wipe away the tears and then push deeper because they know I can handle it and they know they want it. I'm aceflux, well-behaved, and thrive when I'm being used for someone else's amusement. If you have a sharp mind, a thick cock, and a desire to see what it takes to get me into subspace, I’m waiting to be reviewed. *There's a reference in this to my philosophy, a particular brand of absurdist care ethics that loosely connects with existentialism and absurdism.
Female (46) Calgary, Alberta

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