For work purposes, my account has had the opposite of a make-over....And to be honest, I've grown and changed a lot since I last wrote.

Here is a bit about what I am looking for.


I need someone who can hold a very safe space for me, someone who can hold me when i need it. I'm thinking soft Dom vibes.


I have an extremely stressful life as the sole carer for my son. I do a fantastic job, I hold it dowwwn, but I would like someone strong enough to hold me down and pick me up when I need it, because carrying so much is honestly exhausting.

I am looking for someone who lives relatively close by. I would like to establish a connection, and then, if it's right, we can take things further.

I am looking for a stable, substantial, and lasting connection.

I do not have time for time wasters and fuck boys so kindly don't message me if that's you.

I want an exclusive relationship and when the time is right, I need you to be able to host. If you think this could be you, drop me a message.

The nasty stuff. Not for me.