Photo Swapping

All the fun of photo swapping

How do I know who to trust with my nude photos?

I want to send a photo to my partner, what poses can I use?

How do I know it’s okay to send someone a naked photo of me?

All the fun of photo swapping

There are a lot of great things about sharing erotic photos of yourself online. It can help your own self-confidence, it can turn yourself and your chat partners on, it can add a sense of realism to kinky exchanges or cybersex scenes and it can be a lot of fun to do.

It's important to be careful, though. Make sure you understand the risks: these photos can't be entirely taken back once they're out there, and unscrupulous partners could use them in ways you weren't expecting and didn't consent to. Only share shots of yourself knowing these risks, and if you're not happy to take them it's best to keep your pictures to yourself!

Is photo swapping safe?

Photo swapping has its risks. Once you’ve sent it out over the net or via text it can spread anywhere and everywhere. If you have a job that is sensitive or you don’t want your family seeing such photos and knowing it’s you, send photos that don’t include your face in it. Also if you have distinctive piercings or tattoos, make sure they’re not in the shot or blur them out/cover with an emoji before sending.

How do I know who to trust with my nude photos?

This is a difficult one. Sexy photo swapping with strangers on the net can be really exciting but you need to decide if you can trust them. Ask some questions first, have a conversation. If the other person is constantly asking you to send nudes or bombarding you with un asked for nudes then they’re not likely to have your best intentions at heart. If in doubt, don’t send them. It’ll be much more fun to sext with someone who you trust and respect than to worry about who you sent your photos too afterwards.

I want to send a photo to my partner, what poses can I use?

Sexting is great fun but how do you take a sexy photo of yourself for photo swapping? Practise makes perfect. Spend some time experimenting before you get into a hot and heavy sexting and photo swapping so you have some photos on hand and have some poses you know work well. Holding a camera high is a good trick, making the photos have a model feel to them. You can prop your phone/camera up on a chair or radiator, with pillows behind it or on a book case and use the self-timer function to take shots without having to be in arms reach all the time.

How do I know it’s okay to send someone a naked photo of me?

Before you send a nude make sure the person you’re sending it to wants to see it. It is always important to get consent for any sexual action and this includes sending explicit photos. Also make sure it’s okay to send a photo at the moment in time, if the other person is in work/with family etc they might not be happy to get your naked picture right then and there.

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