Just an average next door girl to most people. Something very different to several Others who can see - or find out - what i am.
Having said hat, i have a life here and i am pretty settled. So i am not looking to move or relocate. i am not looking for 24/7 or anything even close to that.
Other optional things about me if You wish to keep reading:
Born in South Africa, now in a French speaking canton of Switzerland. While i can understand a little German it isn't enough to have a long conversation and i certainly cannot spell German either.
My French is slightly better as i can understand it both spoken and written. But my ability to speak it is limited and to write it is at about the same level as German.
And the same with Dutch. No, Afrikaans is not Dutch...
Also working and doing some very weird hours. No intention of stopping or quitting. It can be boring some times but other times it is actually a lot of fun. This is my vanilla life. It is also why i do not seek to be owned.
My vanilla side is something i want. My maso side is something i need. They are like matter and anti-matter. They need to be kept separate. A Owner would never accept what i do on my vanilla side, the same way a boyfriend or a husband would never accept what i do on my maso side. So, there shall be no boyfriend no husband and no Owner.
Having been very curious about sex from my early ***s, it turned out to be a bit disappointing and boring when i started doing it at age six*** - that is legal in both Switzerland and South Africa. My first assumption was that maybe i was doing something wrong. But i wasn't.
Fast forward a few months and someOne who was aware of my disappointment offered to experiment some alternative practices on me, which i accepted. He started with bondage and very creative uses of rope and other restraining devices. And He tried many other different things. Turns out *** and *** was my thing. From there, one thing led to another and here i am now writing this profile.
Based on some interactions i had here already, this may disappoint some. But i was never ***ed, never ***d, never ***d. I just turned out the way i am regardless. Maybe my parents not screwing me up was what screwed me up. It's anyone's guess.
**Desires and Fantasies**
This all depends. There might be desires and fantasies that will work with some and not with others, and vice-versa. It will have to be figured out on a case by case basis.
Hi! I’m new to BDSM world and just beginning to explore my submissive side. I’ve recently discovered how much I enjoy the feeling of being guided, held and mentally and physically surrounded in a safe, consensual space.
I would like to connect with people who value respect, communication and consent. I’d love to talk with experienced Dominants who are kind, patient and enjoy helping curious subs learn
Hi! I’m new to BDSM world and just beginning to explore my submissive side. I’ve recently discovered how much I enjoy the feeling of being guided, held and mentally and physically surrounded in a safe, consensual space.
I would like to connect with people who value respect, communication and consent. I’d love to talk with experienced Dominants who are kind, patient and enjoy helping curious subs learn
Just an average next door girl to most people. Something very different to several Others who can see - or find out - what i am.
Having said hat, i have a life here and i am pretty settled. So i am not looking to move or relocate. i am not looking for 24/7 or anything even close to that.
Other optional things about me if You wish to keep reading:
Born in South Africa, now in a French speaking canton of Switzerland. While i can understand a little German it isn't enough to have a long conversation and i certainly cannot spell German either.
My French is slightly better as i can understand it both spoken and written. But my ability to speak it is limited and to write it is at about the same level as German.
And the same with Dutch. No, Afrikaans is not Dutch...
Also working and doing some very weird hours. No intention of stopping or quitting. It can be boring some times but other times it is actually a lot of fun. This is my vanilla life. It is also why i do not seek to be owned.
My vanilla side is something i want. My maso side is something i need. They are like matter and anti-matter. They need to be kept separate. A Owner would never accept what i do on my vanilla side, the same way a boyfriend or a husband would never accept what i do on my maso side. So, there shall be no boyfriend no husband and no Owner.
Having been very curious about sex from my early ***s, it turned out to be a bit disappointing and boring when i started doing it at age six*** - that is legal in both Switzerland and South Africa. My first assumption was that maybe i was doing something wrong. But i wasn't.
Fast forward a few months and someOne who was aware of my disappointment offered to experiment some alternative practices on me, which i accepted. He started with bondage and very creative uses of rope and other restraining devices. And He tried many other different things. Turns out *** and *** was my thing. From there, one thing led to another and here i am now writing this profile.
Based on some interactions i had here already, this may disappoint some. But i was never ***ed, never ***d, never ***d. I just turned out the way i am regardless. Maybe my parents not screwing me up was what screwed me up. It's anyone's guess.
**Desires and Fantasies**
This all depends. There might be desires and fantasies that will work with some and not with others, and vice-versa. It will have to be figured out on a case by case basis.
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