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What exactly goes through the mind of a woman pegging a guy? 

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So many things! Mostly that I'm gonna make this guy take my big cock and he's gonna like it, or not (given that he's already consented to this). 

I love listening to him moan or squeal. I love looking at his body bent over in front of me, at him lower than me, totally submissive and at my mercy. 

I enjoy his arousal, if he experiences it - not all men get aroused through anal penetration. And I enjoy his ***, if he experiences that, because I'm sadistic. 

Sometimes I'm thinking about shopping or the housework, much as I imagine guys' minds wander when they're fucking a woman. 

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I think it's a difficult one to explain, I remember the first time I pegged someone and I genuinely just thought "Wow, hats off to guys this is quite hard work"...

I think that the comment above mentioning about observing the reactions of his body is very true also. I tend to concentrate on focusing on when the hairs on the back stand up, the look of submission in it's finest.

It's also true for me that I am making sure I am thinking sensibly and not pushing too hard, thinking on behalf of the submissive sometimes admittedly.

Again, Ms Rose pointed out well that sometimes the mind can just wander into the most vanilla train of thought such as do I need to get some bread from the shop on the way home. The mind is beautifully weird in the most wonderful way.

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First and foremost its a turn on for me. As for what is going on in my mind is "how do you like it...". Fuck him as they would do to me, especially anal sex. Unlike porn, you can't just ram your cock in my ass and think it's going to be that easy like my pussy without asking me.
And as for me, I love watching men masturbate. And just to watch you do that while I'm pegging you is a plus. But mainly the roles are reversed and you'll think twice the next time you fuck me once I'm done with you.

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I’m a sensualist so for me it is watching him realize that losing his position as the alpha and becoming more and more submissive as his mind turns to putty at every stroke...mmm

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5 hours ago, MsWhiteRose said:

 

Sometimes I'm thinking about shopping or the housework, much as I imagine guys' minds wander when they're fucking a woman. 

This line made me smile..... mind you the others made me WINCE!!!  ;)

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That was insightful everyone. Big round of applause for all that replied to my question. How did you guys get into doing that in the first place?

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16 hours ago, Freefire said:

That was insightful everyone. Big round of applause for all that replied to my question. How did you guys get into doing that in the first place?

I don't have to "get them into it" - they already are into it. 

Reasons:

  1. Anal play can be incredibly pleasurable, once you get past your conditioning about your ass being dirty or shameful and relax into it. And it's possible to orgasm from anal penetration. 
  2. Being fucked by a woman arouses their submissive desires. I think it's the most submissive thing a man can do. 

I do have a newbie sub I'm playing with who has never stuck anything in his ass before, so I will be doing a few things with him to help him discover his anal pleasure centre. You start with some fingering, during an aroused state. Introduce a butt plug for him to use in his own time. Then move up to longer sessions, like prostate milking and fisting... 

But it all has to be in line with what he's comfortable with. He may eventually be begging me to peg him... he might not. 

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When you find a women who is open minded and enjoys taking control it is so hot and sexy.. I say most men are in to a bit if anal play and it's a great feeling not being in control in any way and opening yourself and opening your inner desires .. when you both go with the flow and feeling comfortable and respecting each other it is the best feeling for both.. 

More.women and men should be more open minded.. 

 

I really enjoyed reading your answer xx

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I seriously love it,  I even cum myself from pegging my sub.  When I slip into the harness and wrap my hand around the dildo it makes me wet, so I get a lot of pleasure from it.  My sub is a little fuck slut anyway and its a lot of fun watching him lose control and have an orgasm while in chastity. 

I will say after the first time i had aches in places I never knew I could ache lol,  But I got used to it after a few times and tend to go a bit wild now while pegging. 

There is just something about having that much control that is super sexy and a big turn on 

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