I'm Gender fluid what do you identify as??!

[li****]

Hey everyone seeing as there ain't many options here to choose from in regards to Gender and or sexual orientation etc. I'd like people to let others know about you and who you identify as.

 

I'll start.....i'm Gender Fluid and this means it's a non-binary gender identity that can change over time or depending on the situation. It's a flexible identity that doesn't fit into society's definitions of "male" and "female". I'll go into some details......

Characteristics

Genderfluid people may feel more masculine or feminine at different times. 

They may change the pronouns and gender-affirming language they use. 

They may dress differently depending on how they feel. 

They may set clear boundaries when relating to others. 

Genderfluid experiences

Genderfluid people may experience their gender fluctuating on a daily, weekly, or monthly basis. 

They may not identify with the concept of gender at all (agender). 

They may experience several genders but they vary in intensity. 

I've had people really not understand Gender Fluid and often mistake it for Gender Neutral.....they are different.

 

Also I'm Pansexual........Pansexuality is sexual, romantic, or emotional attraction towards people of all genders, or regardless of their sex or gender identity. Pansexual people may refer to themselves as gender-blind, asserting that gender and sex are not determining factors in their romantic or sexual attraction to others.

I don't see gender at all when attracted to someone so I've dated Men, Women, Trans and Non Binary people I'm blind when it comes to gender I am attracted to the actual person. 

 

So I'd like to know what do you identify as in Gender and Sexual Orientation!!? And do you think the site/app could do with more choice on these!!? If so what would you like to see included?! 

[Deleted Member]

Well said!

[DrStarlight]

I’m nonbinary and pansexual. I wish they had pansexual as an option on here! For me I feel more genderless outside of play and then I can feel more feminine, masculine or neutral for play.

[ro****]

I'm a lesbian and I'm kind of surprised it isn't an option here specifically

[Ke****]

I'm also genderfluid! I think it'd be great if they added more options for sure!

[Cutiepie990]

Hi I identify as a female same as birth but my sexual orientation is bisexual

[Deleted Member]

A lot of the lack of options & vagueness or lack of clarification is deliberate, it means people have to engage more, have to read through profiles to try find details, and/or, contact people to find out this information.

[Kr****]

@lil-monster when or how did your journey(?) to gender fluidity start?

I thought a lot about my gender and sex because I had many conflicts with traditional gender roles and expectations of society since my childhood.

In the last time I came to the idea of individual gender. Being biological male does not implicate anything about my personality or behavior and I try to see everyone as individual no matter the sex or gender.

[fe****]

Non Binary

[Da****]

I'm a traditional cis-male, but love to learn about all the different genders and sexual orientations, so thank you @lil-monster 🫶

[th****]

I'm a trans woman

[ticklish]

I'm a MtF Woman and also pansexual. I do also struggle with the limited options you have for sexual preferences.

[Deleted Member]

Speaking as a cis man attracted primarily to AFAB people but sometimes more non-binary presentations, I think it's helpful to put whatever details you want to share in bios. But I'm always in favor of more options, too. FEELD I think allows multiple selections for gender/preference/etc

[se****]

There’s a nonbinary gender option. if you go to my profile you’ll see I’m listed as non-binary

[Au****]

OUUU HAY OTHER GENDERFLUID PERSON WAVES im genderfluid intersex and pansexual female leaning. Its hard to describe and explain to others cause sometimes i feel masculine and rarely feminine and they tend to ignore and refuse to understand and block me HEBDBEB but its nice to see other genderfluid people on here!!

[Se****]

Demi-boy here, though most of that is when interacting with people I don't know or aren't really in my sphere of friends.
Also Demi, so yeah a bit short on the list here lol.

[Ik****]

I'm kind of a non-binary, bigender, genderfluid smoothy.

[Ik****]

Also my sexuality is more accurately described as omnisexual. I'd love for a free text option since gender and sexuality exist on spectrums.

[Ge****]

Non binary / agender and pansexual

[Di****]

I am Queer. I want to be wanted.

I am pan. I ❤️ whoever I want to ❤️ and y’all can wait on me or move along, I can’t be arsed

I’m sapio and Demi. You need to be self aware and GIVE love too. No quitters no boring

I’m straight. I don’t like men, I like a woman who can run a chainsaw and make blueberry muffins or anything like ***ess assassin or a witch 🧙 or even a gender fluid Jinn. Have you ever seen INCUBUS? The shatttttt is afire in that movie. He got gender fluid everywhere.

In theory I could ❤️ a dude to bro out with, but so far I only find strong black women to be my type. So I guess I’m gonna just keep look for someone to read to me. I like at

[la****]

8 hours ago, Autophobia said:

OUUU HAY OTHER GENDERFLUID PERSON WAVES im genderfluid intersex and pansexual female leaning. Its hard to describe and explain to others cause sometimes i feel masculine and rarely feminine and they tend to ignore and refuse to understand and block me HEBDBEB but its nice to see other genderfluid people on here!!

I think you sound amazing

[hu****]

Male, male, male.

[au****]

Just a cis-gendered male who is attracted to mainly those with a vagina. But I enjoy playing with all types of genitalia.

[Charms]

I'm female although I do dress in male cargo pants alot ( they have pockets)

I like pockets an there comfortable.  Plus I dress alternative  and they fit my aesthetic

 

It's not about  a person's gender for me. It's if we connect  mentally.  I need to be able to have conversations  with a person.  They have to make my mind also don't care if your disabled  either .  Or have other health problems. 

 

We click we click.

 

[la****]

Sounds exactly where I'm coming from.