Body image issues

[Deleted Member]

I can honestly say that I sabotaged my first experience in kink with a great person because the guy was hot (in my eyes) and my insecurities flared up big time. I'm working on controlling them after that because I know I missed out on a great thing.

[bo****]

@Squish78, I can relate to a very similar experience. Hey if it's that easy to lose how could you keep a good thing going.

[Deleted Member]

It was the chance at a possible good starting experience that I missed out on. Lol. The guy? No emotional attachment.

[TimtheMerciless]

If you have body or confidence issues try youtube Luvbites by Dr Tara. Confidence issues is a recent short . I love doctor Tara because she's the kind of person you just KNOW would be the best sex of your life. Not because of this technique or that, but because she's so enthusiastic..She's not that classically attractive. But she's like a shot of sex tequila. 

 

We can't all be extrovert . But we can commit to enjoyment off our partners, like she does , I think. 

Edited April 9, 2025 by TimtheMerciless
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[Deleted Member]

Same a guy that messaged me on here asked why I was still a virgin he couldn’t understand because he thought I was very attractive but I have 2 skin conditions that has left many scars which make me very insecure. Luckily I met someone that didn’t care and I’m not a virgin anymore I met him on here. Which has definitely upped my confidence.

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Getting involved in social nudity was great for me. Being with naked people from all walks of life and different bodies helped me realise that most people don’t judge you for your body