Nikell Posted July 18 April 19, 2020, TemptressM said: Mental Health is a big problem in BDSM and some seem to pray on this too. I understand you wanting some contact with someone and also understand why you took it as far as you did. Please please learn from this and realize that most that ask for this type of thing are about 80% fakes and scammers and will do anything to keep the flow of *** coming in. I myself detest the glorified version that Findom has become and actually had a conversation with a real Dom that does infact have this kink. I asked her why she did it to try and get an understanding of Findom and she told me she only ever did it with her real life subs and never ever asked them for more than they could afford. If you ever need someone to talk to or need to reach out please send me a message and I will get back to you as soon as I can. Again I will say I am NOT into Findom but love to help people. Yes no more than you could afford ? My Mistress had me on an allowance ,my pay went to the acct I gave her my ATM card to. I missed meals ,wore thrift store clothes ,and even begged on the street at one time . I was in love with that life style .
SJ5461 Posted July 21 Im so sorry your going through this. It can take time but I think you should listen to your gut and when someone disrespects a clear boundary distance yourself. Look after yourself ❤️
Nikell Posted July 23 I had a similar experience her in Canada, but the Blackmailer ( fake ? ) was Idaho USA I texted that in US the FBI will be interested in mail by fraud and if I hear another word from them I would call the FBI . That ended it !
ch**** Posted 3 hours ago July 23, Nikell said: I had a similar experience her in Canada, but the Blackmailer ( fake ? ) was Idaho USA I texted that in US the FBI will be interested in mail by fraud and if I hear another word from them I would call the FBI . That ended it ! This is the 100% correct answer. But also keep in mind we do live in a post #metoo world, no one gets to shame you for being the victim of a scam artist. You did nothing wrong. Even if it did get out, the public perception has completely changed and for the few who didn't change during two years of lockdown, they would be a fool to attempt to shame you. Easily winnable harassment lawsuit. This should have remaind in that online space. It doesn't get to represent you in the real world. If the WORSE case did happen, and that is a BIG "IF", hold your head up high. You would be hard pressed to find a smart phone in the US/canada that doesn't have a saved link or a recently deleted search history. You are a human exploring your sexuality. It is a human experience, not specific to you.
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