Why am I posting on here instead of some other dating site?

[joyceee-4271]

I feel genuinely comfortable here. For the most part, the people I've met—both online and in person—have been kind, respectful, and open-minded. What really draws me in, though, is that this space feels like somewhere I truly belong. Many of us have desires, fetishes, or fantasies that mainstream society often labels as 'weird' or unacceptable. That kind of judgment can make people feel isolated or ashamed, so it's refreshing to be in a place where acceptance is the norm, not the exception.

But here's the thing—if we want to enjoy that freedom, we also need to offer it to others. That means being just as accepting of someone else's preferences, even when they're different from our own—whether it's their kinks, their relationship style, or the partners they choose. Mutual respect and non-judgment go both ways. Otherwise, we're just recreating the same narrow-mindedness we came here to escape.

[Deleted Member]

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[ey****]

this is just it - it's a site with a nice forum so can also help keep people active and learning and helping regardless of if they're looking for, or with, or whatever a partner or not

and yeah, there can well be some narrow minded views creep through but sometimes it is the balance to someone's right to an opinion (however wrong it may be ) and whether something is on the line of shaming.  

[La****]

Same experience. I can be fully myself here without anyone would see me as some sick fuck that needed to be locked up in asylum or some prison. Im accepted and my preference is respected here. So, Im staying.

[Bo****]

Well written, deep insights!

[Deleted Member]

Well said. It's very hard to open up to people about kinky interests. But there's a lot to gain by doing so.

[Wi****]

Very, very true. 👍
I have been talking about "don't just turn the discrimination around" for sooo long. Nice seeing someone else stating that! 😃

[wo****]

FR Joyyceee.. This is a very accepting community for the most part, friendly and comfortable ...being an older ,this makes me feel of the free love era back in the sixties

[R3****]

Lovely…. We’re all here to find something, and acceptance is one of the easiest things to give. Say you enjoy something and help someone feel good about sharing their experiences, or skip it because you don’t. Seems so simple.

[Sw****]

I feel the exact same way!

I think it might have something to do with our kinks being a true reflection of our deeper  selves.