What happened to foreplay?

[ba****]

This is not an attack on foreplay or lack thereof anymore. Just a simple question🤷🏾‍♀️

How has your experience been with not having foreplay before play? Or do you think foreplay is subjective?

Honest opinions only☺️✨

[le****]

Fuck that foreplay is paramount is what makes it last

[Deleted Member]

Im a huge fan for both sides. Depending on the vibe foreplay can be a huge improvement like a warm oil massage to start a very long edging session (goes for both parties aswell) or you can skip it in wilder scenarios like prey play, quickies or cnc. So it all depends on what you are looking for but generally speaking foreplay is an amazing built up but not necessarily needed if you are into wilder kinks wich can be on the spontaneous side

[Loli-2248]

It just doesn't work. I don't understand intimacy without a really good understanding of the other person. Foreplay is a must

[Do****]

Since you want honest, I think you adding the "honest opinions only ✨" is really weird and I can't even pinpoint what exactly its goal is. Are you implying people lie about foreplay a ton? Do you think adding that is gonna stop?

That said, to answer the actual question, when time is limited and foreplay is short, it is not really a bad thing. It doesn't leave me feeling sad or hollow, short encounters can still be nice, they are what they are.

But I really, really enjoy a lot of different kinds of foreplay. It sounds like this might be contradictory to my previous statement, but I probably enjoy foreplay far more than actually finishing in the first place. A good edging session leads to a much more intense orgasm, for example, and if I don't get to use my fingers I'd consider that an absolute tragedy. Not making out, no kissing, biting, teasing? It would be a shame to miss out on them.

So if at all possible, more is always better. But when a long session is not feasible, quickies are still much appreciated.

[Th****]

I think it would be important to state that foreplay means different things to different people . For me it starts way before meeting someone , the mental foreplay and flirting for me determines if I ll consider someone or not .

I love the build up ✨

[Ro****]

I don't know what you mean but it would happen to foreplay. You got to have foreplay. Maybe even some edging. Everybody knows you got to lick it before you stick it 👅👅👅👅👅

[Na****]

27 minutes ago, TheGoodGirl_ said:

I think it would be important to state that foreplay means different things to different people . For me it starts way before meeting someone , the mental foreplay and flirting for me determines if I ll consider someone or not .

I love the build up ✨

You basically said what I was thinking. To me foreplay starts with words and communication. I'll usually get a girl hot and bothered and dripping before we even meet. If you know the person enough tell them the things you want to do to them based on the interest they have shared. They'll be rubbing their thighs and craving you without you ever touching them. Doesn't even need to be a paragraph of context. One nice sentence or two using their kinks and what you're also into will rile them up

[We****]

My man will do hours of foreplay with me on n off throughout the day and it's amazing 😍😍 I don't think I've ever really dealt with no foreplay. I believe I've always initiated things before him for the most part and I just like pleasuring my partners in general so I will give hours of foreplay back. At least some biting n lickin on things or something 😂 I couldn't imagine any interactions without foreplay, but I'm very into tantric stuff and edging too so all that's a must for me.

[Deleted Member]

Definitely the fun bit!!!!!!!!

[Deleted Member]

Foreplay is an absolute must, for me anyways. If I’m not warmed up then I’m not going to enjoy the play time. I want the mental stimulation followed by the teasing and touching. If you want to send me over the edge and make me just absolutely insane then I have to have that stimulation (her).

[Ca****]

As someone who has been in two cuckold relationships, in full time chastity, I gave a lot of foreplay it certainly wasn't dead in our house

[Deleted Member]

39 minutes ago, JX2andU said:

Foreplay is an absolute must, for me anyways. If I’m not warmed up then I’m not going to enjoy the play time. I want the mental stimulation followed by the teasing and touching. If you want to send me over the edge and make me just absolutely insane then I have to have that stimulation (her).

Hey JX2andU! I think foreplay it’s the foundation for a great sex! Flirt, tease, touch it’s all necessary to get in the right mood and of course to make you wet!

[lo****]

I personally love foreplay. Nothing better to get the motor purring and juices flowing . Like anything good its the build up and the anticipation. Waiting to explode. Right too it is a turn off . At that i might as well masturbate. The whole point of intamacy is exploring each other giving of yourself and taking the other in . It a ceramonious sacred act . The whole process. You cant skip ahead . Or you shouldnt. Thats just my opinion. Im sure others may disagree.

[st****]

I live fore play and teasing and ending something it’s bette dean fucking love eating pussy feeling her legs clamp my head as she moans

[ca****]

To be honest it's like a f****** Street f*** not no making no love no nothing just d****** you s*********** and eating p**** and f******

[fr****]

Foreplay starts in the mind, and should never be dropped!

[ve****]

Getting rigging ready an finding good positions an tieing up an securing the sub is all kinds of for play. I think what you are trying to say say it's a attack on Vanilla sex . An yes not every one likes vanilla... Don't knock it if haven't tried it photo shoot is the best forplay!!!!

[Deleted Member]

I love to start my play time with a warm oil massage, or even give my sub a bath and let her soak! Wash her and pamper her! During all this time the touching and rubbing with vocal encouragement or instructions lead to anticipation of play time! I like to make “ foreplay” about the Sub! This gives me time to explore and make my sub anticipate what may or may not happen!! I find this pleasant for me and my Sub!! So I feel foreplay is necessary for me!!

[Deleted Member]

Honestly I truly need that foreplay, either it be teasing, kissing, or even tieing someone up. The only time where I’m okay with no foreplay is honestly when we both know this is just gonna be a quick In-N-Out hookup.