What is foreplay to you?

[ne****]

Foreplay for me, starts outside of the bedroom. It starts mentally. I think what you say, what you do, everything leading up to that sexual interaction can make or break the experience for a woman just as much as the act itself.

 

 What is foreplay to you?

[Ze****]

Foreplay is every little bit of communication that builds the trust as much as the tension.

[To****]

Most definitely! All the interactions before bed play has begun, the body movements you purposely give to your partner, verbal and nonverbal teasing, that mental stimulation and anticipation. For me Foreplay is like the Main dish while the aspect is the side dish (and truthfully way more fun)

[ro****]

I agree. Should be going crazy wanting to get home now. If can have each other crazy horny and turned in so much you gotta pull off the road a minute and keep it going. Gotta be in it and turned on

[Deleted Member]

I completely agree with you. I think that the cerebral side of play is as much, if not more important than the physical acts.

[Ba****]

Its about creating a bit of fun with a partner, Not just for sexual means but for relationship means. Creating a safe space to be playful and open with your partner. Honestly thats the thing I miss most about being in a relationship, just being able to be playful and teasing is always a fun time too.

[Be****]

Everything other than the actual act

[Mo****]

Foreplay starts the moment you see our speak to eachother. The little quirks you do solely to keep their ears perked to what you say. The way you move to pull their attention, stuff like that. It's in how you treat your person 24/7

[do****]

Foreplay to me is every word you utter, every breath I hear, every glance I see, every touch you/I receive and the wonder of imagination..

[Dr****]

I think the biggest form of foreplay is gaining and giving trust.

[Lo****]

I couldn’t agree more dru1df0rc3

[Curiously_Exploring]

Definitely!
I was in a long-distance situation once, and the person I was seeing knew exactly how to push my buttons so I was putty in their hands by the time of seeing each other in person... phew!
Mental stimulation is equally important as physical to me.

[Deleted Member]

Life is foreplay! 😁

[ha****]

I completely agree

[se****]

Of course , foreplay starts with your words, deeds and touch, from sundown to sunset.

[ch****]

Everything!

[Deleted Member]

That is such a great way to define foreplay. I totally agree that it's a mental and emotional event that starts long before the bedroom. For me, foreplay is all about sustained anticipation through intentional connection. It’s the little things that show you’re thinking about me when we aren’t together, like an unexpected text or a specific look that communicates a secret desire. This mental tension is what builds up all day, and the physical acts later are simply the payoff.

[ne****]

The crazy messages I receive are a perfect example of bad foreplay. Men will literally talk there way out of getting the cat.

[Deleted Member]

To me... it starts that morning. 😆

I am about to clean and cook, or take her out. I am going to make her laugh, and let her kick back and relax. If she wants something I am going to get it. If we need something, I am going to get it. I am going to run her a bath with what all the pretty things that spark the senses..

And let her not have to worry about a thing. That way when we get to sex, she can enjoy it and I can take my time. 😁

[Deleted Member]

Foreplay is the most important part of having s6x .

[Sc****]

For us, foreplay is getting along, communicating and getting in touch. Gradually building to our sex life. Flirting, touching, hugs, kisses, holding hands, rubbing each other as you pass. Getting the connection so strong and sometimes building a sexual desire so strong it hurts to refrain. Then boom, it really opens up when you get to the act.

[Deleted Member]

10 hours ago, needamastermunch said:

The crazy messages I receive are a perfect example of bad foreplay. Men will literally talk there way out of getting the cat.

😂This made me giggle. It's true!

[GeneGrey]

I would say foreplay begins with touching your partner’s genitals with or without sexual communication, and intimacy is what may lead to it or not.

[ri****]

Foreplay is the best part! Don't get me wrong I love the act as well but I love the all day flirting/teasing, acts of service, kissing, touching stuff even better. Even with just a fwb there is a way to keep a level of excitement where you are ready before you even see them. The sexual play before the sex is even better when you have kept me stimulated the whole time

[Ca****]

To me unless im having a bad day, foreplay to me, is whispered something sweet, or dirty, or nasty to you, always touching you in sine way when I walk by u every time, flirting when can, and buying u lil gfts randomly, or flowers when ever we not (getting it)!! Because if I dont have that type of relationship, no matter what the relationship is, cuz im down for whateva, besides drama I wont, and I will tap out if any relationship im in has drama!! I want smiles, no drama, go with the flow, and respect, or im gucci, but basically foreplay from me, anytime we not doing hot physical work on each other, I wanna flirt always with u, and show mad respect to you!!