Where can you meet people interested in BDSM without paying for their time?

[Harry1991-1010]

I'm a sub and would like to meet someone who can help push my boundaries but it seems impossible to do so without paying for their time?I'm  based in Leicester. Anyone else had this experience. 

[MistressWhilplash]

Go along to BDSM play parties and Politely negotiate the Womans ' consent to play with you. Remembering no intimacy will occur. Entry fee is to get into the club only.

[Robustlove]

I agree with MstressWhilplash. For those male submissives on the site who are struggling to find a Mistress then getting more involved in the scene, searching for local munch's, dungeons or sex clubs is the best way to broaden your horizons and opportunities. Even if you don't meet the Mistress of your dreams on your first outing, the contacts and networking you do will likely point you in the direction of somebody who would be more suited to your play style.