Dress Protocols

[Deleted Member]

Dress Protocols or the art of clothing control is a fetish that doesn't get enough discussions. Over the years I have learned a bit about this art and engaged in it as a Dom. I would love to hear all of your experiences in this art form.

Was you the one in control of their wardrobe or did you release control to a mistress/Dom. Was it used as punishment against yourself or another submissive. Did you humiliate a submissive with specific embarrassing clothing, only in the bedroom or 24/7 outdoors as well. Do you have boundaries on the items of clothes or footwear that can and can't be controlled. Are you curious about it and want to learn.

Drop your comments below.

[fo****]

When I've done it, it has been more a matter of preference 'I'd like you to wear this dress today, wear something in my favourite colour, I want you in XYZ underwear'. It was fun to wear things that I knew a partner enjoyed, and that doing what they had told me to was in itself pleasing. It hasn't been overly high protocol for me or used as punishment.

[Ar****]

Never used it as Punishment , Just as a form of control. Always envisioned certain outfits to compliment or coordinate certain fantasies on my behalf , but also explore certain facets of subs' wants and needs. Dressing the part always helps the mindset.

[io****]

Something that I'm interested in but have very little experience with outside of a ddlg dynamic where my underwear was chosen every day. I enjoyed that a lot, and for someone to be that invested it brings them a lot of enjoyment too which makes it further gratifying :3

[DarkArts1066]

I’ve never used it as a form of punishment or control - but I do find that it enhances the psycho-sexual state in some circumstances.

For example, I have taken a woman with objectification and sexualisation fetishes, who happens to also be VERY busty out for a walk around a lake wearing a flimsy shirt, without a bra, so that everyone who wants to can watch her breasts and nipples bouncing around as she walks past them.
She was allowed to wear a wide brimmed hat and sunglasses, and also to start out wearing a jacket -which was unfastened, and then she had to remove said jacket shortly into the walk.

The effect of this was to give her a degree of soft confidence initially, and then to increase her level of arousal exponentially… as she took off the jacket, and could see people watching her, from behind her sunglasses.

[Ca****]

I've used it as a form of control... I consider myself to be well-dressed and I've chosen clothing for my subs to make us less conspicuous when in public.

[Laycette]

As a doll, this plus physical shaping eg with corsets etc, is my main thing...

[Deleted Member]

It a form of service submission for me. The following of the order before. Scenes . Is a great honour to do for my dom.

[Ro****]

As a submissive, I enjoy dressing as requested for their pleasure. Another way to earn that good girl from their lips. I do not do well with *** or scolding. I had enough of that as a child. If my dom(me) builds me up and help me feel confident and sexy, I'll do almost anything for them.

[oh****]

Getting outfits approved is a nightly protocol that serves us both: he gets to ensure that I am a good reflection of his ownership in public, while I have less stressful mornings knowing my outfit is laid out for me. He weighs in on preferences, challenges me to wear different things (I would live in leggings and tshirts if I could), but never uses that to punish or humiliate me. We can’t let the kink overstep being a respectable person in the community.

[Deleted Member]

I certainly much prefer dress Protocols than other forms of control and kink. To be creative on the outfits I choose, getting to decide what's best for a dinner date outfit. What's best for a shopping outfit. Stiff we keep In the bedroom. What she wears for me is the perfect way for her to show off her submission by being dressed exactly how I want her to be. It's also a great way to discreetly control the submissive as the general public are not the wiser that the enter outfit was controlled.