If people are mature enough to handle it, sure it's ok. But you usually break up with them for a reason, feelings can be hurt, there's often resentment etc so it can be challenging. Especially if they've turned out to be a cunt...

Can relate, just like many others. The only reason I am still here is that this and other datingvsites are NOT representative of the actual BDSM community. The ones populating these sites generally have no idea as many posts have pointed out. I think having this big influx of 'takers' does harm to Read more… us as a community, expressed through posts like yours. I have voiced this problem for a long time now too but people don't want to hear it.
Munches and other events are where it's at, where we can connect properly. Happy to talk with real others and mutually support. That's what is often missing - that community bond. It's not all about hookups and sex.

This is one of those cases to accept and enjoy rather than over-analyse :-)

Yes all of that but the way the site is built, its policies and marketing all invite that kind of thing. Remember this is a dating site pretending to be a kink site. So it is not populated mostly by actual kink people. And that's the issue right there.

Some lady's bits do snell absolutely amazing due to some very specifix mix of bacteria, ***ctype, pheremones etc. And if your man really loves this specific aroma, then no other is going to come close or could even be a turn-off. I know bc I have had this experience ;-)

Your last line sums up the biggest problem with this site.
If we get pinged every time we are real and the words we use censored, posts deleted and policed (probably by AI that doesn't even understand the intent) then the very premise is false.

The rest though is only relevant if your kink is Read more… all online. But then if you are wanking to a screen it doesn't really matter, does it?

You know if another person is real or not when they are right in front of you.
But far fewer people are even getting to that point now. I've all but given up.

Get out of your bedroom and into the world if you want real. It's not to be found on a screen.

Many people conflate D/s, which is a lifestyle dynamic, with BnD which session based play, ie topping and bottoming. Even if you have pretty set roles, there is a vast difference between living a dynamic based fulltime lifestyle, and playing power games in the bedroom. Not at all the same thing. Read more…
Regarding organisation and structure, yes you are 100% right. Running the House smoothly is the role of Head of Household and if done well it makes the world of difference!

For fuck's sake. Dominant. The word is 'dominant'. Dominate is a verb. Dominant is either an adjective or a noun if referring to a person by their role. But never 'dominate', that is something you do. Please, people. You're killing us here.