All-Rounder

All-Rounder BDSM Archetype

What is an all-rounder?

An all-rounder enjoys a little bit of everything. They don’t have a preference to being dominant or submissive and are happy to switch between them both. They are happy to try everything once!

All-rounders are similar to experimentalists but they don’t have the same drive to keep trying new things. They’re happy to try new things or stick to whatever their partners like. They are very laid back with no real, deep desires of their own for any one kink or fetish.

As they enjoy variety, all-rounders are good for all kinds of scene. They will be eager to try new things and will also be good at suggesting new things to try or add in to a scene to give it a different twist. All-rounders enjoy making other people happy so they’re fantastic partners for anyone because of their enthusiasm.

All-rounders might not have the same passion that some people with specific fetishes and kinks do but they are more flexible. Happy to try out new things, they’re not set in their ways or reluctant to do something different.

An all-rounder is the kind of person who will happily be the exhibitionist one day and a voyeur the next. They’ll be your slave for a while then will be your dominant. Variety is the key to a happy all-rounder.

Which BDSM archetype matches well with an all-rounder?  

All-rounders aren’t necessarily submissive, and can take a dominant role permanently or from time to time. They can work well with other all-rounders but they might find it hard work deciding what to do. They can work well in monogamous and non-monogamous relationships . They also work well with switches as well as all kinds of dominants and subs. They only problem could be that they get bored of doing one role after a while.

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