BDSM Slave Archetype

What is a BDSM slave?

Slaves are submissives who totally give all control over to their Master/Mistress. The main difference from other submissives is that they hand over control of all their life, 24/7 to their top. There can be pre-agreed exceptions to this rule. For the purposes of work for example but by vast majority a slave hands over all decision making to their Dom.

BDSM slaves are happiest when serving a Dominant. They tend to not have limits with their Master/Mistress. This is because their dynamic is very close. The Dominant knows his/her slaves limits and keeps to them.

This is a very unique relationship and is one to build up to. Slaves start out as submissives first and after time become a slave. Slaves, even more so than submissives, tend to wear some kind of symbol of their BDSM slave status. This can be a collar or a piece of jewellery that symbolises their belonging to their Dominant.

Slaves give complete trust to their Dominant, freeing their minds from worry and responsibility. It is a very unique roll and one that only certain submissives can take on.

Which BDSM archetype matches well with a slave?

Slaves match up most readily with Master/Mistress tops. They long for someone else to take complete control of them. They are very loyal and enjoy the freedom from responsibility they get by passing on control to another person. A sub slave will always defer to their Master/Mistress.

Does a sub slave enjoy all forms of submission?

A sub slave enjoys all forms of submission and it doesn’t need to be directly kinky or sexual. Any kind of submission or service is enjoyed by a slave. Their primary purpose is to serve and please their Master/Mistress. Slaves are often exclusively monogamous with their top but this isn’t always the case. Some slaves can be dominant towards others or enjoy play that involves more people than just the slave and their Master/Mistress.

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