Brat BDSM Archetype

What is a brat?

A brat is a submissive who tries very hard to be good but their mischievous nature means they often don’t quite hit the mark. Brats are often naughty but in a playful way. They’re not trying to rebel , they just enjoy encouraging their Dom to take them in hand.

Brats like having rules but mostly so they can be broken. They don’t seek out serious and strict Doms because in their heart of hearts they know they’ll never be totally tamed. They’re cheeky and mischievous and love to wind up their top. They are submissive with a fiery core. They try really hard to be good but sometimes being naughty is its own reward.

Being naughty gives the brat meaning, it is very much the heart of their dynamic. They will take every opportunity to play up, giving their Dom a challenge and providing extra excitement for themselves. They never know how a top will react to their acts of brattishness, also known as bratting, so they’re kept on their toes.

Brats are joyful in all they do, loving their Doms and showing respect but always with the odd moment of naughtiness because that’s what they enjoy the most.

Which BDSM archetype matches well with a brat?

Brats often match up with Brat tamers. They need a dominant who understands that their playful naughtiness is part of who they are and will always be a part of their dynamic. They like to push the limits and over step the mark. To receive punishment and control from their top.

Can brats be tamed?

It can be hard work training a brat, meaning there’s a lot of reward in it. Brats can never be completely tamed, they often speak and act without thinking. However, more often than not their actions are done on purpose to provoke the punishment they crave.

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