What is a voyeur?
A voyeur gets pleasure from watching other people indulging in sexual, kinky or fetish activities. This can be in many different situations. The people or person being watched may be aware the voyeur is there or not. Depending if the voyeur is visible or hidden away.
Some voyeurs like very specific situations or they may just enjoy watching and aren’t bothered whether others know this or not. Voyeurs can be part of the sexy action but will often find positions where they can watch what else is going on too. A voyeur may enjoy watching themselves, employing lots of mirrors to do so or videoing themselves and their partners.
A voyeur could be very focused on simply watching the action all the time or they may also want to be involved in some way. It may depend on the situation or what kind voyeurism the voyeur enjoys.
Which BDSM archetype matches well with a voyeur?
Voyeurs match up well with exhibitionists but can work well with other voyeurs too. Voyeurs and exhibitionists are two sides of the same coin. Often people exhibit both exhibitionistic and voyeuristic traits. They work well with people who also like to watch or like to be watched because they can make up their scenes and kinky interaction to work towards being voyeur friendly.
Why consent is important in voyeurism
Asking for permission to watch is very important within voyeurism. Consent violation isn’t sexy. There are some situations where watching is encouraged such as orgies, swinging parties, play parties and public play events. However, it’s always best to ask before watching to be sure it’s okay.
What other kinks do voyeurs enjoy?
There’s lots of different fetishes and kinks that voyeurs can also enjoy. Such as cuckolding, bondage, impact play and all other kinds of BDSM activities. If it can involve having to watch sexual/kink activity or can be done in front of a mirror, it could be fun for a voyeur.