Multiple Orgasms

Find out if multiple orgasms exist

Do multiple orgasms really exist?

How do you have multiple orgasms?

Can men have multiple orgasms too?

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Find out if multiple orgasms exist

Some think multiple orgasms are a myth - but you can take it from us that they most certainly are not! You'll probably need to work on varying intensity and overcoming sensitivity to make them happen, but most AFAB (assigned female at birth) people can get there with a little practice. Start by focusing on what works best for you already, and see how you feel about picking straight back up after you've climaxed. You might like to experiment with edging as part of the process; bringing yourself (or asking a partner to bring you) right to the edge of your tolerance and then backing off before you actually orgasm can help you learn how to have multiples, and even if it doesn't it's likely to be a great deal of fun.

Do multiple orgasms really exist?

Yes, in studied up to 15% of women asked say they have more than one orgasm during sexual stimulation. It is relatively rare as 1 in 3 women struggle to come from sexual stimulation at all.

How do you have multiple orgasms?

There isn’t one particular way to have more than one orgasm. It can be that stimulating the G-spot can help prompt multiple orgasms, also avoiding overstimulating the clitoris can help as it is very sensitive indeed. However, mentally being prepared for more than one orgasm can be crucial as when you’re thinking of other things, you can’t concentrate on pleasure. So relax, take your time and give it a go.

Can men have multiple orgasms too?

Not really no. Men have a refractory period where the penis goes flaccid and can’t get hard again until this period of time is over. Some men have a short refractory period (generally younger men) and others have longer ones. They really do need time before they’re ready to come again. Doesn’t mean they can’t give someone else pleasure while they wait, though!

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Cum closer to the edge

If you enjoy being controlled in other ways, there's a good chance that you'll enjoy climax control as well; having your partner take control of your orgasms. It's a deep, primal loss of self-determination that massively enhances any kinky dynamic, and it's something that comes up in the overwhelming majority of BDSM agreements. Orgasm control takes many forms: some people use chastity devices to enforce it, while others rely on willpower alone. For many devotees it centres around the submissive partner not being allowed to climax without first asking for and being given permission by the dominant partner - and knowing that they risk punishment should they transgress.

Kinky sex for kinky people

There are plenty of ways to describe the act of sex, but 'fucking' is our favourite. There's just something hot, erotic and sexy about it; it conjures images of late nights and moody lights and basking in a deliciously decadent afterglow. We're fans of getting to the point without beating around the bush, and 'fuck' encapsulates that perfectly. There's a common myth that the word Fuck originated as an acronym, and stands for 'Fornication Under Consent of the King'. This is almost certainly bullshit. As Melissa Mohr says in her excellent book Holy Shit: A Brief History of Swearing, the word 'fuck' is of Germanic origin, related to Dutch, German and Swedish words for 'to strike' and 'to move back and forth'. There's certainly something Germanic about the inherently direct and straightforward nature of the word, but the act of fucking is absolutely universal.

Enjoying sex on the beach

Beach sex comes up time and again in a hundred films, and it's the subject of all manner of romantic scenes in books and other media. It's supposed to be the ultimate in sexy: hot, sweaty, romantic and picturesque. The trouble is that sand gets everywhere, beaches are generally public spaces and there are some parts of your body on which you really don't want sunburn! There are two main options: either frequent a beach that explicitly allows sex to take place, or wait till nightfall and find somewhere nice and secluded to hide out. Dealing with the sand afterwards is your own problem to figure out, of course...