Wand Massager

All you need to know about wand massagers

Does using a wand massager desensitize you?

All you need to know about wand massagers

It might not be quite the same magic wand that Glinda the Good Witch uses, but wand massagers can bring some out of this world amazing orgasms that'll make you feel like you're a miracle-making good witch yourself! Wand massagers were created as a way to ease aching muscles, but everyone knows their vibrations lead to the most amazing orgasms, especially for people with vulvas. Still, there are ways for penis owners to enjoy them too! Wand massagers now are being made purely for masturbation, so it's easy to find the one best for you.

What is a wand massager?

Wand massagers get their name because of their long-stick like appearance and have a powerful vibrating head. When Hitachi released the Magic Wand in the late 1960s to relieve aches and pains, it was quickly discovered to be a powerful vibrator as the vibrations provided brilliant clitoral stimulation without the toy looking phallic at all. These days, a host of different companies make wand massagers and are focused on being used as a sex toy in its own right.

How do you use a wand massager?

Wand massagers are robust and have a rounded head that you press against a person's vulva and can also be used to stimulate the frenulum and balls in a penis owner too. Its popularity comes from its power and the fact it isn't an insertable toy.

Can a wand massager cause pain?

A wand massager can bring a person to orgasm very quickly, indeed. If you keep the wand massager over the vulva once orgasm has happened, it can be quite painful. Orgasm torture is a popular BDSM act and using a wand massager ramps this up!

Does using a wand massager desensitize you?

Not at all. It's unfounded gossip that regular use of a vibrator can make it harder for a person to come. After using the wand massager for a while, you might find the opposite is true; in fact, being so sensitized can be used for lots of fun BDSM play too.

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