Ben Wa Balls

Kegel balls, love balls or geisha balls - here's what you need to know

Do your Ben Wa balls exercises for better orgasms

Anyone with a vagina should consider investing in a set of Ben Wa balls. They're amazing: they feel great, they're good for your sexual health, they can enhance sexual pleasure, and continued use can even result in better orgasms. It's worth indulging in a little experimentation to see what works best for you. Generally speaking, smaller and heavier love balls will be harder to keep inside than larger lighter ones--start with an easy set and work up as your pelvic tone improves. It's also important to remember never to use vaginal Ben Wa balls anally; buy an ass-safe set and don't take the risk.

What are Ben Wa Balls?

Ben Wa Balls are small, marble shaped balls weighted for use inside the vagina. They provide sexual stimulation and can help in exercising the pelvic floor muscles.

How do you use Ben Wa Balls safely?

It is advised to use some lube when inserting these balls, but don’t use too much as then they will easily slip out again. At first, lying down to put the balls in is advised, it’s easier than trying to do it standing up. Also use them inside and practise holding them in before trying to wear them out in public or you might find them falling out at the most embarrassing moments. If you can’t get the balls out again (not all of them have a string connecting them together) don’t panic. Bear down and they will come out. Use more lube if needed.

What are the health benefits of using Ben Wa Balls?

To keep the balls clasped inside, you need to use your pelvic floor muscles. Clenching them, known as kegel exercises, can help intensify orgasms as well as stopping you having issues with leaking urine when laughing/sneezing/coughing etc.

Are Ben Wa Balls Kinky?

You can definitely make Ben Wa Balls kinky. Command your sub to wear them for you either in the house or even out in public! This will definitely add a little spice to your sex.

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