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Discipline - The road to punishment

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What is BDSM discipline?
Is discipline always physical?
How does consent fit into discipline?
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Discipline is almost universally accepted as a core component of pretty much any BDSM dynamic. For most people it's done as something that in reality is enjoyed by both participants, though there are people who get a kick out of receiving discipline and correction that they don't necessarily enjoy for itself in the moment. Most kinky discipline is physical and pain-based, but that's not the case all the time; many kinky couples use other punishment types as well or instead, such as corner time or writing lines. Certain acts of sexual service can also be used as discipline. Your safeword remains in place, of course, and negotiation and pre-consent is just as vital for these kinds of play as for any other.

What is BDSM discipline?

When a sub does something that is displeasing to their Dominant, they can choose to punish them in some way. Also, if a sub does something well, they can praise them for it. It is a way of adapting behaviour of a submissive.

Is discipline always physical?

Not always, it can be a raised voice, corner time or writing lines. Masochists, for example, would not find pain to be a deterrent but more of a reward. It could be doing certain chores as well, cleaning cutlery or ironing for example. I’m not sure anyone sees those chores as a treat!

How does consent fit into discipline?

As with everything within BDSM consent is key. A sub or slave will agree in advance to let their dominant discipline them, there will be an agreement on what can be given as a punishment and of course, they can use their safeword at any time if it becomes too much for them. Consent is important through all of BDSM. Especially in areas that deal with emotions and psychology.

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  • Mistress sat in her bed thumbing through her phone, a stern and disappointed expression on her otherwise beautiful face. The door in front of her creeks, opens, and Myke came in. “Stop.” She says. ...
  • In the world of Sentinels, disciplined and strong, Stands the ISTJ-A, unwavering all along. With structure and order, they live day by day, Ensuring that all things fall in their rightf ...

  • Rules, Punishments and Discipline

    IamkingDominick posted a topic in BDSM Forum

    This question is for both Dominant and submissives who are or have been in a D/s dynamic relating to structure specifically (Rules, Punishments and Discipline) what are a few personal favorites and wh ...

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    Naughty girls who crave discipline and correction from stern but sensual caring mentor and authoritarian . Very generous Aftercare and pampering for all those good but naughty girls who just need some special attention
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    Dom here with an interest in Master/Slave and DDlg dynamics, with a sprinkling of sadism and light bondage thrown in for good measure. I’m still learning about myself and kink as well, and as such I am open to exploring and experimenting with my partner(s).

    I am seeking a real long-term open/semi-open relationship with a strong physical and emotional connection to my partner. Open to one or more partners (IE non-monogamous), but am willing to go exclusive if/once a strong attachment and connection is formed.

    I am Actively looking for a dynamic that involves aspects of DDlg, Master/slave, and pet play. Open to exploring and experimenting with new kinks and aspects of other dynamics.

    • I have a strong preference towards partners that are the same age or younger, but I am open to partners up to a couple years older. An Openness to many kinks and a willingness to explore and experiment is highly preferred. A hint of Brattiness would be appreciated, but not required.

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