CFNM

[Di****]

Clothed Female Naked Male

Who has experience with these types of events? I've been to 2. One was a live version of Clue where the men were naked except for costume accessories to indicate which character they were. The Ladies established clues by putting the men into the various rooms and then used different toys on us. Hilarity ensued. The second event was an Easter egg hunt with various kinky tasks that the men had to perform to the amusement of the Ladies.

Does anyone have other event ideas I can share with our group? 

[Lu****]

My group does something similar with a basic DnD one shot. The campaign is just a straight forward one shot but your rolls dictate consequences/rewards and a "loot drop" board dictates what toys bosses drop. Players can perform tasks to barter if they want something in particular. The goal is to stay in character and finish the campaign as best possible but even then it's not necessary.

[Deleted Member]

I've attended at least two, one being memorable because I won a round of a card game the first time I played it, despite the best efforts of the naked man who was the first to get ousted from said game. There was no kinky play, just games, service by the men, and a stated focus on aesthetic appreciation and the female gaze.

[Curioustopeg]

Friend from college invited me to her 20th, she had been low-key doming me since we met, go there and found her and 5 friends and that she wanted me to wait tables and serve drinks in a bow tie! They spent the night getting buzzed and trying to one up each other . Can honestly say I have never been more ***d, humiliated or dominated in my whole life. It was wonderful

[ki****]

Once I served two dommes. One of them was actually using me as the object of her apprentice. It was fun to help her out. The fun thing about CFNM is that the male is so *** that he can’t do much but let go of himself and serve the domme. It feels good at the same time it may be scary. Loved it. 😍

[Neighbour13]

Where do I find these events

[Po****]

I like cfnm but no woman in near of Me like to meet

[me****]

This is an interesting concept

[Di****]

I did figure modeling, the women always outnumbered the men when they knew a male was posing. Being an exhibitionist it was a rush everytime being bare in front of a whole group of people.

[de****]

Where do you hear about such events

[Salacious67]

Never been to a CFNM event, there were some events advertised in my area last year which I was interested in attending and then they got cancelled due to lack of interest, which was a shame. I wonder if this is generally the case and if so is this down to lack of interest form subs or Dommes? Is it the whole concept of vulnerability form the outset of being totally naked and exposed too much for some people to start with and hard to overcome their shyness. 
 

I find this idea they you are ***d to be naked and vulnerability to be exciting and scary at the same time. I’ve nude bathed many a time and have no issues with this as everyone else is naked, but when you are presented with others be clothed and you are naked there is that psychological difference that puts edge to it. 
 

 

[ey****]

4 hours ago, Salacious67 said:

I wonder if this is generally the case and if so is this down to lack of interest form subs or Dommes?

I lack some of the context here, but

on fetlife there are guys who will set up "events" - CFNM parties, foot fetish parties, pegging, gangbangs, whatever.... but don't actually know or have any women.   They post under the hope at least one will sign up.   But most women kinda see through it.

There's an old saying that if you're not the customer you're the product - and at some of these the women are expected to be *both* and so not interested in a bad "deal" 

[Salacious67]

36 minutes ago, eyemblacksheep said:

I lack some of the context here, but

on fetlife there are guys who will set up "events" - CFNM parties, foot fetish parties, pegging, gangbangs, whatever.... but don't actually know or have any women.   They post under the hope at least one will sign up.   But most women kinda see through it.

There's an old saying that if you're not the customer you're the product - and at some of these the women are expected to be *both* and so not interested in a bad "deal" 

Yeah, definitely not how things should be run. Things should be fully open and transparent when any event is organised to ensure safety to all. 

The ones I looked into were organised by well respected club who ran other events too, but for some reason just couldn’t the CFNM events just didn’t attract much attention so they had to cancel. 

[Do****]

OMG I’d love to go to one of those!!!!

[Do****]

5 hours ago, Salacious67 said:

Never been to a CFNM event, there were some events advertised in my area last year which I was interested in attending and then they got cancelled due to lack of interest, which was a shame. I wonder if this is generally the case and if so is this down to lack of interest form subs or Dommes? Is it the whole concept of vulnerability form the outset of being totally naked and exposed too much for some people to start with and hard to overcome their shyness. 
 

I find this idea they you are ***d to be naked and vulnerability to be exciting and scary at the same time. I’ve nude bathed many a time and have no issues with this as everyone else is naked, but when you are presented with others be clothed and you are naked there is that psychological difference that puts edge to it. 
 

 

Let me know if you hear of any as I’d be up for this!

[Salacious67]

I’ll look out for some and let you know 

[Do****]

31 minutes ago, Salacious67 said:

Yeah, definitely not how things should be run. Things should be fully open and transparent when any event is organised to ensure safety to all. 

The ones I looked into were organised by well respected club who ran other events too, but for some reason just couldn’t the CFNM events just didn’t attract much attention so they had to cancel. 

I’m sure I saw some either in the Cheshire or Midlands area, Domme:sub events. Someone shared one with me but no clue where it was or how to find it.
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I have been desperate to get a Domme chat room going in here. Most of the threads in the forum have lots of subs in England, but I hardly ever see any Dommes chatting in the area. There feels like a community of male subs through all the forum chat but I want to draw out the female Dommes and get them chatting, encourage others to try it, maybe get them to events together. Not sure quite how to build a ***hood that would get us out and about more, and building in our own confidence.

[ey****]

1 hour ago, Salacious67 said:

The ones I looked into were organised by well respected club who ran other events too, but for some reason just couldn’t the CFNM events just didn’t attract much attention so they had to cancel. 

I think some of the same applies also - in the sense it can sometimes but a difficult sell 

Like, a lot of what do the men get out of this and what do the women get out of this - particularly when it's people outside of a relationship.  Stuff like SMug (Suited Male, undress girl) events often are just limited to people in a dynamic and they will usually have an organiser willing to take a hit on lower numbers (though a few years ago - opening up a venue for a low attended event was more worthwhile than being closed, and now it's cheaper to be closed than have a quiet event)

Femdom events have sometimes ran into that issue at first also - that - especially when a lot of single men/subs turn up hoping for play, this often falls onto Dommes/women to entertain them which can be especially difficult if there's such an outnumber (even 3/4 to 1 can impact) 

However, there are of course a lot of Femdom events which do get off the ground - but then, this can be appealing to Dommes who don't just want to look at naked guys, and subs who are not male -- I guess this also then ties into CFNM and how that is communicated - like - is it CFNM from a Femdom perspective --or-- from a fantasy/sex perspective 

[Subbyrohit]

Please list some movies on this topic regional and hollywood

[sillysub]

6 hours ago, Subbyrohit said:

Please list some movies on this topic regional and hollywood

There honestly aren't a ton. I would not watch fifty shades of grey though. That is not an accurate depiction of bdsm at all.

[Mi****]

I live the CFNMlife style Every day 24/7,I feel so blessed to be her show pony

[MistressWhipplash]

I only attend CFnm events where I know the organiser. I have been to several and have found most of them amusing. Bare men with bow ties and an apron serving dinner, where they shyness has my sadistic laugh nice and loud. Some tasty eye candy with wine and cheeseboard. A good red with entertainment which I happily create on the spot. Naked men performing ballet that involves them bounce, ha ha funny.
Then coffee and after eight mints while the men serve. Then it's playtime. Hoops on hard bits, with the winner being the one with the most hoops without droop.
Plenty of FemDom fun.
Plenty of new "friendships" have started at such private parties.

However, the pushy "touch my penis" men get caned right on their pertruding part. Us ladies decide the pace, that's how I like those sorts of parties. When I created ClubFEMuk parties I managed a few and we all laughed.

Edited April 21 by MistressWhipplash

[Li****]

I got into the CFNM thing after watching the dancing bear videos on the hub. It's like a at a strip club and there will be a lot of women there and the strippers come out. The women will start playing with the strippers kind of one upping each other and stuff until the bride to be gets banged by the stripper. I actually ended up in a mff relationship for a few months and the girls would get me naked and see who could make me cum first while only using their hands and mouth

[hu****]

I have been paraded around a fetish club on a leash ,naked except for a collar and nipple clamps. People wr given permission to stroke and do other things to me ,was such an amazing night! (Thank you mistress Katie).

[di****]

Mistresswhiplash, I both hoopla hoops in the hope of trying this out