I'm queer. And I've started realising I'm a bit gender-queer, too. I present and act as male, more-or-less by default, but I just can't be bothered with a lot of things that are considered to be traditionally masculine. I don't want to take anything away from anybody out there who is actively trans and experiencing the challenges and bigotry on a daily basis, but my gender identity is not as clear as I once thought it was.

Age play and race play.