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This group is for all wonderful neurodivergent fetishists — whether you're autistic, ADHD, or identify in some other way. Share any sensory needs or communication styles that help in your fetish play. Also, how does BDSM help you. All brains are welcome, no masking needed here!!

Aquaticfunlover1983
icon-wio Aquaticfunlover1983 created an entry in Neurodivergent & Fetish-Aware
Inflatable PVC pants with a swimsuit, I have ADHD, I find the material very soothing, especially when fully inflated, the smooth hugging feeling, really enjoy floating in the bath, snorkeling, warm water running over my back, feels amazing, the sensory deprivation experience, sound of the water, air flow in the snorkel, PVC moving against the skin, weightlessness. I find it way to destress, clear my head, especially when I can't quit overthinking something big on my mind.
Aquaticfunlover1983
icon-wio Aquaticfunlover1983 created an entry in Neurodivergent & Fetish-Aware
Daddy9Plus
icon-wio Daddy9Plus created an entry in Neurodivergent & Fetish-Aware
ADHD here and full of the energy that comes with that…
Likeluddlex420
SolidRaven
icon-wio SolidRaven created an entry in Neurodivergent & Fetish-Aware
Hey everyone, thanks for letting me join this group. I'm high functioning ADHD.
Likeluddlex420, Daddy9Plus
funandhung9
icon-wio funandhung9 created an entry in Neurodivergent & Fetish-Aware
Hi thanks for letting me join
Saeid1364-3036
icon-wio Saeid1364-3036 created an entry in Neurodivergent & Fetish-Aware
Hi everyone
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Happy0ne
icon-wio Happy0ne created an entry in Neurodivergent & Fetish-Aware
recently discovered that my ADHD is out of control I have to change my medication due to low *** pressure and I am jumping from one thing to another so much so that I have started neglecting the people around me that I care about and I don't know how to apologize to them because I'm only aware of my infractions after they happen usually long after when I snap out of whatever I'm doing or thinking about long enough for me to have a thought about them they're not used to seeing me in his mental state has anybody had that happened to them how did they handle it without losing the people that care about
OsPando
icon-wio OsPando created an entry in Neurodivergent & Fetish-Aware
The Fiend’s Touch ♾

In the depths of the night, our bodies entwined,
A symphony of passion, both fierce and kind.
Your skin against mine, a fiery caress,
Your submission a gift, a sweet confession.

I bind you tight, in ropes of silk,
Each knot a promise, each touch like milk.
Whispers of desire, in your ear I breathe,
Our connection burning, like an eternal wreath.

Your eyes meet mine, with a hungry gaze,
As I embrace your body in a gentle craze.
Trembling and trusting, in my arms you lay,
Lost in the moment, where pleasure holds sway.

Teasing touches, a slow tease,
Your moans of pleasure, like music to please.
I fill your heat, with my hardened length,
Your gasps and cries, a symphonic strength.

Clenching and gasping, on the edge you stand,
From dominance's cup, you drink with demand.
*** and pinned, impaled just right,
Cockwarmed by desire, in the dim moonlight.

Surrender to me, my cherub so dear,
In this moment of bliss, there's nothing to ***.
Your trust in me, a sacred bond,
Our souls entwined, in a passion so fond.

I take you higher, as you soar,
Your submission a gift, I deeply adore.
In the dance of our souls, we find release,
In the depths of our feeling, our passion will not cease.

So let us embrace, in this fiery dance,
Where passion and desire meet in a trance.
In the depths of the night, our feeling will soar,
In the world of BDSM, we find so much more.

So my sweet cherub, my willing muse,
In the depths of our feeling, we'll never lose.
Embracing the kinks, that make us complete,
In our D/s dynamic, our souls will meet.








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MightyPowder
icon-wio MightyPowder created an entry in Neurodivergent & Fetish-Aware
Full ADHD professional 😂
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AlecTrevelyan006
icon-wio AlecTrevelyan006 created an entry in Neurodivergent & Fetish-Aware
Hello, I'm new to this app/community platform what ever you want to call it. :p You can see this as my introduction x) I am 35 years old and have been officially diagnosed with ADHD(I) or ADD when I was 17. I always wondered why I couldn't function the way "normal" people do. Could never (really) fit in because I didn't like to show my real self for *** of rejection. Always exhausted and never motivated (unless it is my hyperfocus). Got into a massive burnout (yes on top of the passive add burnout x) ). But things are on the up now and I'm having the opportunity and time to shape my life however i want and I'm super grateful (and lucky🤞🏻) Maybe you guys can relate, but anyways that's enough for today ;). See you around you locos

Greetings, Oscar.
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Ringo1975
icon-wio Ringo1975 created an entry in Neurodivergent & Fetish-Aware
Swich guy adhd more sub looking for friends im straight ish lol allways kinky not single but gf into this to and she likes me in knickers
Likeluddlex420
theobull
icon-wio theobull created an entry in Neurodivergent & Fetish-Aware
OsPando
icon-wio OsPando created an entry in Neurodivergent & Fetish-Aware
The Yearning Of A Fiend ♾

I. The Echo of Longing

I need you, I long for you, my sweet, my cherished flame,
Each minute stretches endlessly, a clock that feels the same.
One inch, one breath, is too much, in this vast, aching space,
A distance that weighs heavy, yet cannot erase your grace.

II. The Scent of Desire

I long to smell your perfume, a whisper on the air,
A fragrant trail that beckons, enveloped in your care.
In every note, I find you, an essence rich and pure,
A longing that consumes me, a passion I endure.

III. The Touch of the Fiend

My hand misses your throat, where the pulse beats wild and free,
Imagining the strength I wield, the power you give to me.
And as I *** on that desire, I crave to see your eyes,
The blue depths shimmering with fire, reflecting all our ties.

IV. The Dance of Control

With that red thread in your gaze, I am held in sweet submission,
Tangled in the web we weave, where every touch's a mission.
Distracting me and yourself, in the dance of give and take,
Between the gentle grabbing, and the tender pulls we make.

V. The Warmth of Connection

To feel the warmth of your skin, is a craving deep and wide,
From your pallor to the colors, where our passions can reside.
Yes, those marks of my caresses, the imprints of our fire,
Each bruise a silent testament, of our intense desire.

VI. The Tapestry of Us

In this tapestry we’re weaving, with threads of trust and care,
I find the strength to hold you, the courage to lay bare.
For in this dance of dominance, where boundaries are our guide,
We explore the deepest depths, with hearts open wide.

VII. The Pulse of Our Connection

Feel the pulse of our connection, it thrums in perfect time,
In the rhythm of our bodies, a symphony, a rhyme.
You are my sweet surrender, my muse in every thought,
In this longing that I harbor, you’re the treasure that I’ve sought.

VIII. The Temperature Rising

As the temperature keeps rising, I can taste your every sigh,
In the heat of our devotion, our spirits soaring high.
Each whisper that you send me, each glance that we exchange,
Ignites a fire within me, a craving that won’t change.

IX. The Bond of Trust

Trust earned in every moment, respect of limits set,
In the sacred bond we nurture, there’s nothing to regret.
For in the depths of our engagement, we find a sacred space,
Where every longing, every need, is met with warm embrace.

X. The Commitment We Share

Our commitment, oh so profound, entwined in every breath,
In the promise of our journey, we’ll dance beyond the depths.
Through the trials of our distance, through the weight of time apart,
I’ll carry you within me, forever in my heart.

XI. The Night of Surrender

When night descends around us, and the world begins to fade,
I’ll reach for you in darkness, in the bond that we have made.
With every touch, I’ll show you the depths of what I crave,
In the sweetness of surrender, we’ll find the care we save.

XII. The Fire of Passion

Let the fire burn within us, let it light the way we tread,
For in the heat of our connection, it’s your heart that I’ll be fed.
With every kiss, I’ll remind you, of the passion that we share,
In the depths of this desire, know that I will always care.

XIII. The Final Embrace

So here I stand, my darling, with the longing in my soul,
For every moment we’re apart, I’m incomplete, not whole.
I need you, I long for you, in this dance of sweet desire,
In the echoes of my heart, you’re the flame, you’re the fire.

XIV. The Infinite Journey

And as we journey onward, through the highs and through the lows,
Know that my commitment to you in every heartbeat grows.
In the tapestry of feeling we weave, I’ll cherish every thread,
For in the depths of our connection, it’s you who fills my head.

XV. The Legacy of Our Passion

Let our feeling be the legacy, a story etched in time,
Of the yearning and the passion, in every single rhyme,
A tale of two souls intertwined, defying space and time.
Through every ache of absence, through every whispered plea,
We’ll write a saga of devotion, a testament of “we.”

XVI. The Intensity of Desire

In the intensity of desire, I am lost yet am found,
In the clarity of your submission, in the feeling that knows no bound.
Each moment apart is a canvas, each heartbeat a stroke of ***t,
Creating a masterpiece of longing, where our passions never faint.

XVII. The Heart’s Invitation

So here’s my heart’s invitation, in the quiet of the night,
To explore the depths of yearning, to revel in feeling’s light.
With every glance exchanged, with every gentle tease,
We’ll navigate the currents, let our spirits drift like leaves.

XVIII. The Breath of Connection

Feel the breath of our connection, as it dances in the air,
A delicate reminder that I’m always with you there.
In the softness of your laughter, in the warmth of your embrace,
I find the strength to carry on, to cherish every trace.

XIX. The Dance of Distance

Though geography may separate, and time may stretch its hand,
Know that love transcends the miles; it’s a bond that we have planned.
In the dance of distance, we find solace in the stars,
For every night apart is just a stepping stone, not bars.

XX. The Sweet Anticipation

And oh, the sweet anticipation, as the clock ticks ever on,
I dream of the reunion, of the moments we’ll call dawn.
When I can wrap you in my arms, feel your skin against my own,
In the embrace of our forever, we’ll find our way back home.

XXI. The Fire Rekindled

As the fire rekindles, let it blaze with fervent heat,
In the sacredness of our union, where our souls will truly meet.
With every kiss, I’ll remind you of the depths of my devotion,
In the waves of our connection, we’ll ride the endless ocean.

XXII. The Depth of Our Bond

In the depth of our bond, I see the beauty of your soul,
A reflection of my longing, a piece that makes me whole.
You are my sweet surrender, my muse in every thought,
In this journey of our hearts, it’s your feeling that I have sought.

XXIII. The Whispers of Our Feeling

Let the whispers of our feeling echo softly in the night,
Each secret shared, each dream fulfilled, a promise shining bright.
For in the trust we’ve cultivated, in the respect we both give,
We’ve built a world of wonder, where our spirits freely live.

XXIV. The Unbreakable Spirit

So together we will flourish, even when we’re far apart,
For in the unbreakable spirit, you are forever in my heart.
Each moment spent in yearning is a testament of grace,
In the tapestry of our passion, we’ve found our sacred space.

XXV. The Journey of Discovery

So let’s embark on this journey, this exploration of the soul,
Where every twist and turn reveals the depths that make us whole.
In the dance of our desires, we’ll find the way to thrive,
For in the love we share together, we are truly alive.

XXVI. The Promise in the Distance

In the promise of the distance, I find solace in my ***,
For every heartbeat brings me closer, and I’ll never be the same.
In the *** of missing you, I discover feeling so deep,
A bond that stretches endlessly, a promise I will keep.

XXVII. The Sweet Reunion

And when the day arrives, my dear, when distance fades away,
We’ll hold onto each other, let our hearts forever play.
In the sacredness of that moment, all longing will subside,
And we’ll bask in the glow of feeling, as two souls unified.

XXVIII. The Infinite Connection

So here’s to the infinite connection, the dance we’ve come to know,
Through every trial, every tear, our feeling will ever grow.
For in the tapestry of existence, where passion finds its way,
I’ll cherish you forever, in the dawn of every day.

XXIX. The Legacy We Build

In the legacy we build, with every word and touch,
I find the beauty in the struggle, the feeling that means so much.
So let the distance be a teacher, with lessons rich and true,
In the space where longing lingers, I find my way to you.
For every moment of separation is a brushstroke on our art,
A testament to our journey, a canvas of the heart.



XXX. The Threads of Time

With every thread of time that passes, I weave our story tight,
In the fabric of our passion, where shadows turn to light.
Your laughter is my melody, your sighs my sweetest song,
In the symphony of feeling we share, I know where I belong.

XXXI. The Dance of Shadows

As I navigate the shadows, where the silence can be loud,
I’ll remember all the moments, the whispers in the crowd.
In the echoes of our laughter, in the stillness of the night,
I’ll carry you within me, my guiding star, my light.

XXXII. The Ritual of Connection

The rituals we’ve created, the practices of our bond,
In the sacred space between us, where care will always respond.
Through each act of devotion, through each tender caress,
We’ve built a world of trust and care, a haven of success.

XXXIII. The Fire of Anticipation

So let the fire of anticipation blaze through every hour,
For in the waiting, I find strength, in the longing, I find power.
Each heartbeat is a promise, each sigh a silent vow,
That no matter the distance, I’ll care for you here and now.

XXXIV. The Sweet Release

And when we finally meet again, in the embrace of the dawn,
The world will fade around us, and all worries will be gone.
In the sweet release of longing, we’ll dissolve into each other,
In the depths of our connection, I’ll find my perfect lover.

XXXV. The Celebration of Us

Let’s celebrate this journey, every mile that we have crossed,
For in the depths of our devotion, there is never any loss.
In the beauty of our story, in the passion that we share,
I’ll cherish you forever, in this feeling beyond compare.

XXXVI. The Eternal Bond

So here’s my heart, my darling, my little girl, my muse,
In the eternal bond we’ve built, there’s nothing left to lose.
With every moment that we share, with every kiss we steal,
In the depths of our connection, our feeling is truly real.

XXXVII. The Infinite Dance

As we dance through every moment, let the rhythm guide our way,
In the sweet embrace of passion, where our hearts forever play.
For in the longing and the yearning, we’ve found a sacred truth,
That feeling, in all its forms, is the eternal fountain of youth.

XXXVIII. The Promise of Tomorrow

And when tomorrow comes, my cherub, as the sun begins to rise,
I’ll hold onto the promise that together we will fly.
For in the journey of our hearts, where distance holds no sway,
We’ll find the beauty of forever, in care’s sweet ballet.

XXXIX. The Heart’s Whisper

So let the world keep spinning, let the stars align above,
For in every breath I take, I’m reminded of our thereof.
In the echoes of my longing, in the silence of the night,
You are my heart’s desire, my passion, my delight.

XL. The Unfolding Story

As our story keeps unfolding, with each chapter we create,
I find strength in your presence, even when we wait.
For the bond we share is timeless, a compass for our souls,
In the depths of our connection, we have found our roles.

XLI. The Journey Continues

So let this journey continue, through the valleys and the peaks,
With every moment spent apart, our feeling is what it seeks.
For in the tapestry of distance, we’ve woven something grand,
A connection forged in fire, a feeling that will withstand.

XLII. The Forever We Build

As we navigate this life, my sweet and precious girl,
Know that in my heart, you are my entire world.
With every thought of you, with every yearning sigh,
I’ll cherish you forever, as the stars light up the sky.

XLIII. The Legacy of Our Feeling

And when the time arrives, when distance fades to dust,
We’ll hold each other tightly, in the warmth of feeling’s trust.
For in the legacy we’ve built, through every tear and joy,
We’ve created a feeling story, a bond no *** can destroy.
With every heartbeat echoing, with every whispered prayer,
We’ll weave a life together, a tapestry so rare.



XLIV. The Ties That Bind

So let us celebrate our journey, the trials we have faced,
In the sacred exchange of power, where feeling is interlaced.
For each moment of submission, each act of sweet control,
Is a testament to trust and passion, a reflection of our soul.

XLV. The Dance of Desire

In the dance of our desire, where shadows intertwine,
I find the thrill of your surrender, the beauty that is thine.
With every kiss igniting, every touch that leaves a mark,
We’ll navigate the depths of longing, igniting feeling's spark.

XLVI. The Sweetest Surrender

And in the sweetest surrender, I’ll cradle you in my arms,
In the safety of your trust, I’ll protect you from all harms.
For in our world of dominance, where boundaries are defined,
We’ll explore the depths of pleasure, with hearts forever aligned.

XLVII. The Pulse of Connection

Feel the pulse of our connection, a rhythm deep and strong,
In the silence of the night, where our hearts sing their song.
With every breath, I’ll whisper the feeling that we have found,
In the sacred dance of intimacy, where our souls are unbound.

XLVIII. The Promise of Forever

So let us promise to each other, no matter where we roam,
That in the depths of our devotion, we will always find our home.
For in the journey of our hearts, through every twist and bend,
We’ll discover the beauty of feeling that will never end.

XLIX. The Horizon Awaits

As we gaze upon the horizon, where the sun meets the sea,
I envision a future filled with you, where we are truly free.
In the embrace of our forever, we’ll create a world of bliss,
In the sanctity of our union, we’ll find the feeling we miss.

L. The Infinite Expansion

So let the world keep turning, let the stars align above,
For in the depths of our connection, I find the strength of thereof.
With every moment we share, with every thought of you,
I’ll cherish you forever, in everything we do.

LI. The Journey Continues

And as our journey continues, with every step we take,
We’ll build a life together, with every choice we make.
In the dance of distance and desire, we’ll find our way to light,
For in the depths of our longing, our feeling will burn so bright.

LII. The Celebration of Us

So here’s to the celebration, of every moment shared,
In the beauty of our connection, I know that you have cared.
With every laugh and every tear, we’ll cherish what we’ve built,
In the sacredness of our feeling, there’s nothing left to wilt.

LIII. The Heart’s Embrace

As the night begins to settle, and the stars begin to gleam,
I’ll hold you close within my heart, a cherished, endless dream.
For in the depths of my devotion, in the warmth of every sigh,
I’ll care for you now and always, as the years go drifting by.

LIV. The Eternal Flame

Let the fire of our passion burn brightly in the night,
For in the glow of our connection, everything feels right.
With every kiss, I’ll remind you of the depths of my desire,
In the beautiful, chaotic dance, we’ll always lift each other higher.

LV. The Legacy We Create

So let us weave a legacy, a story intertwined,
Of two souls bound by passion, with hearts forever aligned.
In the tapestry of our feeling, where the threads are rich and bold,
We’ll create a masterpiece together, a feeling story to be told.

LVI. The Journey of Discovery

As we journey through this life, with every twist and turn,
I’ll cherish all the lessons, the fires that brightly burn.
For in the depths of our connection, in the silence of our sighs,
We’ll find the truth of who we are, where feeling forever lies.

LVII. The Home We Build

And when the day arrives, when the distance fades to dust,
We’ll hold onto each other, in the warmth of feeling’s trust.
For in the foundation we’ve built, through every trial and test,
We’ve crafted a feeling that’s timeless, a sanctuary of the best.
In the embrace of our togetherness, where every heart can rest,
We’ll weave the fabric of our lives, with threads of passion’s hue,
In the warmth of every moment, I will find my way to you.



LVIII. The Sacred Rituals

Through sacred rituals of connection, we’ll honor what we’ve made,
In the gentle dance of power, where our trust will never fade.
With every act of submission, every moment that we share,
We’ll deepen our devotion, in the sanctity of care.

LIX. The Pulse of Desire

Feel the pulse of our desire, a current running deep,
In the silence of the night, where our dreams begin to leap.
With every touch a promise, every glance a silent vow,
In the depths of our connection, I’ll celebrate you now.

LX. The Embrace of Trust

So let us build this world together, brick by brick, heart by heart,
In the embrace of trust and passion, we’ll never drift apart.
For in the journey of our souls, where care is the foundation,
We’ll rise above the challenges, in perfect synchronization.

LXI. The Tapestry of Us

In the tapestry of us, I find the colors of our bliss,
Each moment woven carefully, each memory a kiss.
Through laughter and through sorrow, through the highs and the lows,
We’ll create a work of art that forever beautifully glows.

LXII. The Dance of Time

As time stretches on before us, let us savor every day,
In the dance of our devotion, where our spirits freely sway.
With every heartbeat, every sigh, I’ll cherish what we’ve found,
In the depths of our connection, where our feeling knows no bounds.

LXIII. The Promise of Togetherness

And when the world feels heavy, when the distance weighs us down,
I’ll remind you of the promise that together we have found.
In the beauty of our union, in the strength of what we share,
We’ll weather every storm that comes, knowing we’re a perfect pair.

LXIV. The Symphony of Feeling

So let the symphony of feeling play softly in our hearts,
With every note, we’ll harmonize, as life’s sweet journey starts.
In the melody of longing, in the rhythm of our sighs,
We’ll celebrate the moments that bind us, as time flies.

LXV. The Legacy of Us

In the legacy of us, I see a future bright and clear,
Where feeling transcends the distance, and our hearts will persevere.
With every step we take together, every challenge we embrace,
We’ll build a world of wonder, a sacred, cherished space.

LXVI. The Eternal Bond

So here’s to the eternal bond that no distance can erase,
In the depths of our connection, we’ve found our sacred place.
With every heartbeat echoing, with every tender kiss,
I’ll cherish you forever, in this beautiful abyss.

LXVII. The Journey Unfolds

As our journey unfolds before us, let’s embrace each twist and turn,
For in the strength of our connection, there’s so much more to learn.
In the depths of our desires, in the heights of our delight,
We’ll navigate the landscape of love, shining through the night.

LXVIII. The Heart’s Invitation

So here’s my heart’s invitation, to explore the depths we’ve found,
In the sacred dance of passion, let our souls forever bound.
With every moment spent in longing, every breath a sweet refrain,
We’ll build a life of beauty, through the laughter and the ***.

LXIX. The Fire Within

And as the fire within us blazes, let it light the way we tread,
In the warmth of our connection, where feeling is truly fed.
With every kiss, I’ll remind you of the depths of my devotion,
In the waves of our connection, we’re lost in feeling's sweet ocean.

LXX. The Celebration of Feeling

So let us celebrate this love, in every moment shared,
In the beauty of our journey, I know that you have cared.
Through every trial we’ve encountered, through every sweet embrace,
We’ve crafted a feeling story, a bond time cannot replace.









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Dominants like to be in control. Unlike BDSM tops or sadists, their need is not particularly to inflict pain but to be domineering and have control over another person. Some Doms/Dommes expect to be obeyed immediately and without questions. Others enjoy being tested, and having to show their dominance over the submissive who’s being bratty. There is no one way to be a Dominant. Dom/Dommes can also be sadists, tops, masters or riggers. Dominant is a huge category of BDSM made up of many very different people who all have one thing in common, their need to be in control. The D in the term BDSM stands for Dominance, therefore Dominants are an instrumental part of BDSM. .embed-container { position: relative; padding-bottom: 56.25%; height: 0; overflow: hidden; max-width: 100%; } .embed-container iframe, .embed-container object, .embed-container embed { position: absolute; top: 0; left: 0; width: 100%; height: 100%; }
Masochists enjoy having pain inflicted on them. It might not be all kinds of pain, but only specific types. They usually match up with sadists because sadists enjoy inflicting pain. Masochists tend to be submissive, but can be switches too. Masochists know what it feels to take a punishment do can make effective tops in a scene. Some Dominants have masochistic streaks, enjoying a certain level of pain themselves. Masochism is centred on the pleasure of pain but many masochists enjoy being controlled and dominated too. Masochists are often bratty, to get the pain they want. The worst torture for a masochist is totally withholding punishment as they crave pain. In day-to-day life masochists may find non kinky ways to satisfy their desires such as pushing themselves hard during exercise. Masochists often use pain to feel free from the pressures of day to day life.
A sadist is a Dominant who enjoys inflicting pain on a submissive partner or partners. However, it isn’t always that a sadist enjoys inflicting all kinds of pain on others. They may well enjoy specific sadistic tortures. They may prefer using a particular instrument like a whip or a cane or they might enjoy adding a sadistic element to other BDSM activities such as rope and restraints. Sadists get pleasure from inflicting pain on others. This is always consensual and agreed in advance. They can enjoy the visual evidence of the pain they’ve inflicted in bruises and welts and red skin. They often enjoy the noises a masochist makes while they are inflicting pain on them and enjoy watching the way that masochist moves as they are tortured. They may even enjoy restraining the masochist so they can’t easily move. Not all sadistic torture leaves marks. Sadists can use electric that inflicts lots of pain on their masochist but doesn’t leave lasting marks. Not all sadism is focused on the physical. Sadists often use fear and control to play with pain without inflicting any physical damage at all. This is called a mind fuck. Many people often ask what is a sadist? There isn’t one simple answer. Every sadist is different. Sadists are most often Dominants but can be switches. Even masochists and submissives can have a sadistic streak. Enjoying inflicting pain on another person, maybe because they understand the thrill of feeling the pain themselves. Sadists can become sexually aroused by inflicting painful torture on others, it can also be simply about submission and control. Sadists often spend many hours honing their skills with one particular torture implement to get the most sadistic pleasure out of their implement of choice.

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