Deleted Member Posted July 19, 2025 It’s a shame, isn’t it? We have these scenes in our minds that make the dick jump and the clit quiver but might it feel like it’s too.. intense? Have you ever met someone who shared a kink/fetish but you feel a sense of apprehension about sharing just how intense that kink is for you?
PL**** Posted July 19, 2025 I have a fantasy that is beyond wild, and the thought of sharing is almost enough to make me feel like I'd never be valued again, so I have only shared it once. It's scary opening up the most *** parts of ourselves.
AmieJ Posted July 19, 2025 Isn't being vanaruble part of the scene? To emotionally open up? If your sub is open, you may get to experience that fantasy. If she or he is not ok with, you are still in a safe space. A place to open up just as much as get off
La**** Posted July 19, 2025 There are definitely fantasies I consider too "dark" or "intense" to share with some people. That being said, I've been trying to challenge the assumption that I will be shamed for them by taking the chance to share them with certain people. It's worked out well so far and my anxiety around them is down very slightly.
PL**** Posted July 19, 2025 3 hours ago, AmieJ said: Isn't being vanaruble part of the scene? To emotionally open up? If your sub is open, you may get to experience that fantasy. If she or he is not ok with, you are still in a safe space. A place to open up just as much as get off Being a sub is about being vuln3rable, ir right. However, just because it is supposed to be a safe space does not mean judgment won't occur. I have been judged for my fantasies by doms in the past. Yes, most often it's a simple reply that they would never do that. However, I have also had those who cannot hide their disgust and/or horrific feelings towards my voicing of an intense fantasy. As a sub, I should be able to have that safety but the fact is we are all human and even though it's a safe space, emotions show within facial expressions, and some will use words to hurt, whether it is a safe space or not.
st**** Posted July 19, 2025 Yes it can be that way, not always is it though. For myself I have looked for a person to help act out and exspreance a few I want to know and not been able to there not that exstream fantasy roleplays one does not even have to include sex for me to experience so not easy to understand way I can't find someone willing
re**** Posted July 20, 2025 Im black and i wish more white women would be okay with my raceplay fantasy. 🙄😩
Deleted Member Posted July 24, 2025 Author it’s always been people who get turned on by furies for me icl, no hate like do wtv makes you happy but I don’t understand the whole *** thing lmao
Callmelittle1 Posted July 30, 2025 Definitely some of mine is. Kidnaped, shipped in a crate. Put in a scold’s bridal which is chained to the hearth. For example
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