I am new to the scene. But I do know what I am looking for. You can pass me on by if you are only looking for a quickie in your backseat, I am supper busy and dont have time for high school play.
I am learning my limits. However, permanent scaring is a hard no, no pet play...
Reflecting back on personal experiences. I have been into kink sense the time I started exploring sexually. But I became repressed due to others miss understandings. I squirted the first time in my 20's, guy thought I had ******** on him..I was devastated and spent the next 18 years hold back
Thank you!! Some of us do have an outside life and responsibilities. It is a huge turn off, sign of desperation, when one starts with "I've been here 3 day's...." Not attractive at all.
Isn't being vanaruble part of the scene? To emotionally open up? If your sub is open, you may get to experience that fantasy. If she or he is not ok with, you are still in a safe space. A place to open up just as much as get off
We all do have a different love language
You deserve your aftercare as well