The Art of Dressing Up

[Deleted Member]

Dressing Up a Submissive: Ritual, Power, and Aesthetic Control

This is one of my favorite, most affirming things to do. I love the control it gives me and how hot it is for my sub to wear what I pick out. This can be either everyday wear or lengerie and fun time outfits.

Dommes — do you enjoy choosing your sub’s clothes, accessories, or scent?

Subs — how does it feel to become someone’s living art project? What makes it enjoyable for you as a sub?

[Si****]

Having some one pick out clothes, especially ones that “aren’t meant for Me”, such as lingerie, panties, stuff like that, even dresses and things, and then being visibly happy and attracted to me in them. Is a huge turn on. And just a turn on wearing them.

[Deleted Member]

I think the thrill of dominance being asserted in everyday items such as clothing is amazing. It can be subtle. And if its „not meant“ for me than it’s even better

[mo****]

Oh yes? Standing there while the humiliate you and pick out sick slitty outfits!

[Si****]

4 minutes ago, montverde39313 said:

Oh yes? Standing there while the humiliate you and pick out sick slitty outfits!

Honestly, yes. Even better when they make fun 

[La****]

This is actually one of the essential of dollmaking. Which making your sub (or yourself) as an art project of beautification. It gives me so much pleasure dressing them up and do make over for my doll. Not to mention ‘playing’ with them in many ways as I please. Then putting them on ‘display’. Off. Even talk abt it excites me.

[Deleted Member]

7 minutes ago, Lady_King said:

This is actually one of the essential of dollmaking. Which making your sub (or yourself) as an art project of beautification. It gives me so much pleasure dressing them up and do make over for my doll. Not to mention ‘playing’ with them in many ways as I please. Then putting them on ‘display’. Off. Even talk abt it excites me.

Is doll-making a non-self-controlled form of feminisation then?

[Deleted Member]

Lace and stockings are the way to my heart ❤️

[La****]

2 hours ago, Lina-MissFenwick said:

Is doll-making a non-self-controlled form of feminisation then?

Not always necessarily a feminization or sissyfication. It depends on the ideal or dream doll of the maker. For example; Im into bjd dolls and angel statues. So Id love to dress my doll similarly with the said bjd or statues. Types of dollmakers are varied. There are even dollmakers that is into action figures. So they would treat their dolls as such. The connection could be TPE or even casual. Personally, I only do TPE. Thus I can play with my dolls in every aspects I wanted. For some makers, the dolls are purely a project for ***. And for some like me, its a project of admiration of beauty. Even though *** could be a part of it. So it all depends on the maker.

[Deleted Member]

7 minutes ago, Lady_King said:

Not always necessarily a feminization or sissyfication. It depends on the ideal or dream doll of the maker. For example; Im into bjd dolls and angel statues. So Id love to dress my doll similarly with the said bjd or statues. Types of dollmakers are varied. There are even dollmakers that is into action figures. So they would treat their dolls as such. The connection could be TPE or even casual. Personally, I only do TPE. Thus I can play with my dolls in every aspects I wanted. For some makers, the dolls are purely a project for ***. And for some like me, its a project of admiration of beauty. Even though *** could be a part of it. So it all depends on the maker.

Really interesting 🤔
There‘s always something new to learn
But i love the idea

[la****]

Latex Gloves on beautiful women

[Do****]

I’m not into sissification so I enjoy dressing subs in clothing which makes them look hot, sexy. Particularly in a relationship, picking clothes which make them look better than the things they pick themselves. Encouraging them to break out of their norms and be their best self 😍
And off course more attractive to me 🥰

[On****]

I have always enjoyed tasking my partner with presenting me with panties and bras of their choosing for inspection, and they are not allowed to take them off (only I am) while in my presence which includes changing during the day for swimwear or bed etc. This starts their day with the thought "Sir/Daddy will be seeing these, must choose wisely"

[su****]

when i serve someone, i prefer to be naked (baring a chastity device). it makes me feel at my most vul-ner-able and open to be mocked. but i would wear whatever i was told to wear. if it pleased them.   what my Dominant wears is entirely up to them. i have no preference on the matter. i would just as happily serve someone in sweatpants and a baggy T as someone dressed head to toe in leather or latex.  whatever they feel most comfortable or most powerful in .

Edited July 26, 2025 by subbie00

[th****]

I pick out and approve my subs' daily appearance. They also must maintain certain agreed-upon standards from the beginning of the dynamics' onset. I enjoy seeing them dressed and groomed as I prefer and they seem to enjoy the control. They also know, they represent me when in public and are required to meet certain standards and complete random acts of kindness for others daily. Ie. Holding doors, paying for the car behind them in drive-through and two of them volunteer weekly at a local domestic *** shelter or *** shelter.

[Ot****]

That would be interesting! Having a domme thay would dress me sounds kinda hot to me

[Ki****]

On contemplation, my mind immediately goes to a slut femboi look (yes, hangs head in shame. I’d do it if you picked it Mistress). But then jeans and a t? Shorts and Hawaiian shirt? Then tails oor mah kilt? That makes my gut clench in the bestesest way. Not quite Her whispering, “Good girl” in my ear, AFTER I’ve donned my wardrobe du jour clench. But pretty close.

[Ki****]

July 26, SissySwitch97 said:

Having some one pick out clothes, especially ones that “aren’t meant for Me”, such as lingerie, panties, stuff like that, even dresses and things, and then being visibly happy and attracted to me in them. Is a huge turn on. And just a turn on wearing them.

I get it about the panties now. And that journey only started seven or so months ago around the time the clock said I was 62. And now that I’ve thrown hands in the air, it’s more and more of the femme side when I’m in public. I’m coming out more and more in my “real” life.

[Th****]

Love it esp fishnets and all those outfits from Amazon