Three way relationships

[un****]

Is anyone here involved in an open three way relationship , that involves mutual living arrangements under one roof ? And if so , what are the mental , physical and spiritual requirements of each individual involved ? Has anyone ever experienced or heard of such accomodations between a male , female , and trans ? I was wondering if that could ever work out . Thanks .

[Ch****]

Poly experienced here. I've been similar situations but obviously there will be differences. The only real responsibility you have is to yourself, the care of the home, and respecting the needs each partner has for their living spaces. There will have to be most likely conversation and common ground in shared living areas. Some people work with schedules or individual storage areas for kitchen belongings. Sometimes it's easier if you just communicate how interactions with spaces work mentally. As long as everyone is honest about their needs and is willing to adjust for each other there shouldn't be too much issue. Though I don't know the floor plan or details of this dynamic. Just make sure no one uses their "boundaries" as an excuse to bulldoze decisions. Obviously respect personal boundaries but recognize the difference between a real boundary and an excuse to *** wants in both partners and yourself.

[pa****]

A three-way open relationship under one roof?
It can work — if you’ve got honesty, respect, and team spirit locked in.
🧠 Talk it out — no secrets, no sugarcoating.
💪 Respect space & bodies — yours and theirs.
🔥 Keep the vibe alive — lift each other up, don’t drag down.
Male + female + trans? Doesn’t matter — trust, care, and equality do.
If you can love like partners, respect like teammates, and hustle like housemates… you’ll thrive.
Otherwise, it’s just a slow burn to drama.
Want me to make one that’s even more raw and heart-hitting, like something you’d tell a close friend?

[ja****]

I've done it and want to again

[pa****]

Am far from u lovies

[Bo****]

I am open to it

[st****]

“What are the requirements from each person” well that is unique to each relationship just like the requirements from each person aren’t the exact same in monogamous relationships or ENM relationships. The boundaries and expectations are going to be based on what each of the people INVOLVED has as boundaries and expectations and not a blanket rule.

[lo****]

Basically, what stonermilf420 said, if you don't talk to the people involved, then you won't know if it's going to work out. Talk about everything, though: finances, cleaning, cooking, relationship dynamic, if you invite people over what happens, literally everything. The genders of the people don't entirely matter imo as long as everyone is understood and respected.

[un****]

20 hours ago, payam_replay said:

A three-way open relationship under one roof?
It can work — if you’ve got honesty, respect, and team spirit locked in.
🧠 Talk it out — no secrets, no sugarcoating.
💪 Respect space & bodies — yours and theirs.
🔥 Keep the vibe alive — lift each other up, don’t drag down.
Male + female + trans? Doesn’t matter — trust, care, and equality do.
If you can love like partners, respect like teammates, and hustle like housemates… you’ll thrive.
Otherwise, it’s just a slow burn to drama.
Want me to make one that’s even more raw and heart-hitting, like something you’d tell a close friend?

Yes . I appreciate everyones input ! Thanks

[Ma****]

Lots of communication is necessary for it to work

[Ba****]

Currently in a throuple, we all live together. We are still adjusting. Lots of talking. Lots of discussions on boundaries and needs.

[at****]

Never tried

[un****]

Yesterday at 12:05 AM, BatterBaker71 said:

Currently in a throuple, we all live together. We are still adjusting. Lots of talking. Lots of discussions on boundaries and needs.

That is awesome ! Would love to hear do’s and dont’s

[Deleted Member]

I see this question a lot and I think it's indicative of the cultural shift where experiencing right now away from monogamy as people are just kind of giving up on this concept that is just as easy or difficult as a polyamorous relationship depending on the people involved and the amount of communication people are comfortable with just like any other relationship it seems to me that people are so nervous about it because it is such a cultural societal expectation to be monogamous and anything else must obviously be more difficult and wrong or shameful or all kinds of nonsense.
So my advice for anyone considering a polyamorous or multi-partner household relationship whatever you want to call it is to treat it like you would any other relationship it's work it requires communication and patience and forgiveness and understanding that you're going to have days where everything works perfectly and you're going to have days where nothing goes right but if the connections are there and the communications are there then you'll get through it like you would literally any other relationship.

[Ch****]

I lived and was in a relationship with two men once, it was amazing!

[Amazonbbw]

Tuesday at 02:05 PM, Chamiie said:

I lived and was in a relationship with two men once, it was amazing!

My type of energy!

[BlueGrace]

I am a female sub and I have 4 Doms. I live with 2 of them and I am closed poly. We have been together for 17 years. We don’t have spiritual requirements. We all work full time. We do weekly chore rotations so that no one is stuck with the same chore. We do monthly bill rotation so that no one is always stuck with the same bill. We have had our ups and downs like all relationships. The older we get, the more ups we have because we are able to communicate in healthy ways. We don’t fight. We rarely argue. We do enjoy bantering with each other. We bond with each other together and separately. We aren’t perfect. We are human and have our flaws but we accept those flaws and embrace them. We have came a long way over the years and we’ve worked hard for what we have relationship wise.