Is it me?

[Va****]

As to what @otta said figure out what part you want to be bring to the table. Dom or sub. Also ask for what you want ..... u never know he wants to just suck it because you asked. My husband get women to suck him off all thr time

[Ch****]

I feel you brother. It’s hard out there on these apps just too many guys and not enough girls. Everyone has a list of people to entertain and can’t even carry a conversation for than a few days. I open respectful and communication goes a long way but the problem is getting that opportunity to even take a shot lol

[kr****]

I was in a 16 year monogamous marriage that just ended as she left me to be her authentic self … polyamorous …..
Before her I was in prison. Had no experience dating or anything of the sort ..
I agree with the comments above … be yourself … showcase your assets .. be authentic … most importantly grind …
Be vigilant consistent and swipe feverishly
…. I consider myself a catch .. I’m good looking confidant alpha male dom who is artistic genuine , evil weird and rich and I still have to put in alot of work get ghosted get put down cause most men do suck but I don’t .. iv never cheated and I always treat women with the highest level of respect
And Mabye 1 out of 30-50 women I interact with actually go out and meet in person .
So grind … be yourself avoid stupid shit like dick pics and hey u want to fuck shit until u have a rapor …. Good luck

[De****]

Back when meeting people from the internet was still considered weird in society, I was on AOL, setting up like 3 meets/dates a weekend and it was not hard. Back then, the people that did that weren’t afraid or paranoid of each other. Different times I think.. I had fun I always had two girls fighting over me and idk 🤷‍♂️now all the normal people and all the creepy people ruined it, like always lol

[De****]

Oh but anyways - I don’t even bother trying too hard online. It’s not like regular life because you are always competing with waaay too many people. This does not happen face to face. My chances are ALWAYS way higher just meeting by chance. Women who would ignore me online don’t do it if I just somehow meet them face to face

[Ne****]

Please take a step back and look at how you present yourself.
Do you see am alive, energetic man ready to meet someone to create a fireworks spectacle!

Let yourself go at the risk of being too much. Make faces or jump for someone’s
love. Korney or crazy

[45****]

Fake it till ya make it. You're selling yourself, mostly in clothes and hygiene. The talking, be interested, not interesting. Take the focus off you. Be "others centered". Be interested and you'll have friends and lovers

[ki****]

Try not to overthink it. I’ve gotten ghosted/blocked for asking about limits when there profile says ask about my limits or asking if they would like to chat. you can give people exactly what they ask for to the letter and still not get a reply. Just fake the confidence till it comes and take breaks as needed because faking confidence can be a little strenuous on your mental health. Plus some conversations require you to tiptoe around it to get to know them first.

[Ii****]

I ask myself this all the time on this app

[Ad****]

Woman never really know what they want, its not all you....

[sh****]

Unfortunately everyone thinks they can be a content creator. Instead of having fun and enjoying life, they just set around hoping some *** will come their way.

[2B****]

I think it’s a bit more complicated. I won’t speak for everyone, just my personal experience, but it’s very hard for me to keep up with more than 2-3 convos.

I also value getting emotionally connected. I want to know who the person is, not just their kink compatibility, especially due to the nature of the kink I enjoy.

I’m looking for a proper dom, and there’s lot of fake doms out here. I think vetting people is par for the course, and sometimes you can tell pretty quickly how someone approaches you if they’re a good fit. I’m not excusing it, but every once in a while ghosting is easier than constantly telling people you’re not interested.

Some people get mean and super aggressive when they get rejected. It happens more often than I would like to be on the receiving end of, and that’s nerve wrecking as hell.

Anyway. Just my two cents. Take it with a grain of salt, but maybe it offers some insight to let you know where some folks might be coming from.