I am a 67 year old SSBBW bi widow who likes her kink. In my vanilla world I was literally "large and in charge". When I got home I prided myself on being the best sub my Dom could want. I enjoy bondage, blindfolds, impact play, oral, role play, medical play, and more.
Hard Limits:
No , s, , , branding or scaring, no *** or alcohol, knives. I am a submissive but not a masochist.
If they call you mommy they probably want validation and safety. Make them *** but be their rescue from hood, blindfold, confinement
If you are not getting anything out of it, you don't sound in charge. What do you want if you are in charge? Set limits, boundaries (" one call a day, 5 minutes, make it count...; or "you don't call me, I call you. Now hang up!)
A Munch is a get together/meeting of kinksters. They are usually held in a private meeting room at a restaurant or pub/bar once or twice a month. The "parent" website for this app is FetLife.com and is the largest international kink website in the world. It's free and in the menu you can select Read more… events and it will tell you all the kink events in your area or across the country.