Group Sex

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Do you have to be polyamorous to enjoy group sex?

Can I go to a swingers club as a single man?

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Threesomes aren't the be all and end all of more-than-two sex, foursomes and moresomes are also common in some fetish clubs and sex-positive social circles, and sex involving four or more people is often referred to as 'group sex'. There's more than one form of group sex - there's the gangbang, for example, where a group of people are all focused on one individual, and there's the orgy, which is more of a free-for-all. People of all and any sexualities and gender identities can enjoy group sex in the right context, and it's a great way to live out some of your deeper and darker fantasies.

Safer sex is even more important in group situations than it is in most others, as there's a far higher chance of picking up something you didn't want when you have more partners at once. You should also have consent negotiations before, during and after--it's vital to make sure that everyone is happy, comfortable and on the same page.

What is group sex?

As the name suggests, it’s sexual interaction with more than 2 people involved. Threesomes, foursomes and moresomes of all kinds.

Do women like group sex?

Some do, some don’t, as with all things, different people have different preferences. There are many people on the kink scene who enjoy sex with more than one other person, especially within swingers groups but some are also monogamous. You just need to ask to find out.

Do you have to be polyamorous to enjoy group sex?

You don’t have to be. Poly people tend to have committed relationships with more than one other person, that can involve group sex dynamics but you can enjoy group sex even if you’re mostly monogamous.

Can I go to a swingers club as a single man?

It will depend on what the rules are for the club you visit. Some don’t allow single men at all, others accept them but generally a single man will pay more for entrance than a couple or single woman. Do your research before you go to your local swingers club by looking them up online or giving them a call.

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The 'classic' gangbang situation is one woman being fucked by a group of men at once. It's likely to involve double or triple penetration and sometimes ends up with some pretty intense cumshots. There are plenty of variations on the theme, of course, people of all sexualities and gender identities can enjoy a good gangbang - but the core concept is a whole group of people all concentrating on having their way with a single sub. Many BDSM fans find that this is a common and highly enticing fantasy, particularly if they're into the idea of sexual humiliation.

Get the best out of a threesome

Probably the single topic most often raised in the magazine's agony column is threesomes. Whether they're your hottest fantasy, your weekly reality or something that you reckon would turn you right off, they're big news - and they certainly have plenty of fans! The trick to finding a threesome is not to force it - these things happen naturally, and you're unlikely to be able to engineer a situation with a stranger or online that works out to your satisfaction. The trick to enjoying one, on the other hand, is to make sure everyone's feeling included and to try and spend roughly as much time 'giving' as you spend 'getting'. This is a good rule of thumb no matter what kind of sex you're having, but when there's more than one other person involved it can be hugely beneficial to give it some conscious thought!

Swing into swinging!

Swinging is another form of non-monogamy, though one that looks at the question from a very different perspective to polyamory. Swingers tend to be in serious, stable, primary relationships and have occasional sex with other people who are also in those relationships; the primary couple is considered the most important thing of all, and the theory behind the extra-marital sexual relationships is that they're 'a bit of fun' without too much romance or a lot of intense emotions. Of course, in practice swingers often form wonderfully intense bonds with their other partners; human connection is what it's all about, after all!