Older Sex Partners

For those who prefer the experienced

For kinksters into older play partners

Not everyone who prefers their partners to be a little older than them is looking for a Hugh Hefner stereotype. Plenty of folk prefer their partner to have a little more experience than them, and there are loads of fetishes (such as Caregiver/little or Owner) that thrive off a bit of an age gap. The important thing is to make certain that, no matter what your sexual dynamic, in everyday life you're on the same level - power differentials are hot in kink terms and potentially abusive in everyday ones! Keep in constant communication, treat your partner as an equal outside of your dynamic and enjoy all the age gap relationships you could want.

I prefer my partners to be older than me, is that okay?

Of course it is! Age is merely a number but some people are really into age gap relationships with older sex partners. If you find older guys or gals sexy then embrace that. The fetish scene is a very accepting place and it’s not unusual to see large age gaps in play partners.

I’m a little, how do I find myself an older caregiver?

There are several ways to find yourself a partner. You could try adding a personal ad to fetish.com to find someone suitable for example or you could look up littles events in your area and go and meet some people and see if you hit it off with a caregiver.

If I only like older partners does that mean I’m into age play?

It kinda sounds like it but no. Age play is all about roleplaying as someone of a different age. If you’re attracted to older sex partners that in itself isn’t age play. There has to be an element of role playing someone of a different age for it to be age play.

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