Younger Sex Partners

For those who prefer the power dynamic

For kinksters into younger play partners

It's very common for someone to fetishise the idea of sleeping with someone who is drastically different in age to themselves. This is usually associated with the Hugh Hefner stereotype, but there's no need for that to be the only way it's perceived; plenty of people prefer a partner with a little more experience, and that goes regardless of gender orientation or sexual identity!

This is sometimes part of a kink, particularly if associated with something like DD/lg or other sexualised role plays, but for many it's simply a matter of to whom they tend to find themselves feeling attracted. A significant age gap can introduce an interesting power dynamic to any BDSM relationship, which many enthusiasts find is a fun added bonus!

I prefer my partners to be younger than me, is that okay?

Of course it is! Age is merely a number but some people are really into age gap relationships with younger sex partners. If you find younger guys or gals sexy then embrace that. The fetish scene is a very accepting place and it’s not unusual to see large age gaps in play partners.

I find younger sex partners attractive, am I a cougar?

There are lots of different definitions of the term cougar, some people use it just to mean a woman who has younger sex partners, other definitions include an element of aggression or domination. So it’s up to you. If you identify as a cougar then you are but if you don’t, then you’re not!

When writing my dating profile can I specify that I only like younger people?

Of course, it is after all your dating profile and you want to make it as accurate as possible. Be as specific as you like but always be respectful. If you’re only looking for younger sex partners it may be worth stressing that you won’t answer messages from anyone older than you so you get responses from the people you want to get replies from.

If I only like younger partners does that mean I’m into age play?

It kinda sounds like it but no. Age play is all about roleplaying as someone of a different age. If you’re attracted to younger sex partners that in itself isn’t age play. There has to be an element of role playing someone of a different age for it to be age play.

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