Fingering

Fingers of fun!

For all fingering fans

Fingering is a common term for what is more properly called 'digital stimulation'. Neither phrase sounds particularly sexy, but for a lot of people the reality is red hot: many people with clitorises find that they can't easily reach climax without a little attention in this department.

The key to great fingering is better communication. Ask your partner what they want and what they enjoy; you could try asking them to use your hand as though they were doing it themselves to help you learn what it is that they like.

If you're on the other end of the equation and you aren't sure what to ask for, experiment! Masturbation is a natural, healthy way to get in better touch with your own body - and there's no better method of finding out what turns you on.

What is fingering?

Stimulating a person’s vulva, vagina and clit with just your fingers.

How do you finger someone well?

The best advice is to ask them what they like. Some people will like forceful thrusts inside the vagina, some might like their G-spot stroked, others will want gentle motions or lots of clit stimulation. So ask what they want and you can then do what they like.

Can you get pregnant from fingering?

There is a very, very slight chance but it is highly unlikely. If a guy has pre-cum or ejaculate on his fingers and directly places them inside the vagina there is a tiny possibility of pregnancy. To avoid this, be sure to wash your hands before fingering. It will also stop any possibility of infections too.

How do I combine fingering with my D/s dynamic?

Pleasing your dominant with nothing but your hands can be an interesting and fun challenge. Dominants can finger a submissive for a reward or to play with orgasm denial or control. It is a fun activity to try outside, in public or in front of a crowd (at a BDSM or swingers club for example). You can combine pleasure from digital stimulation with pain from biting or scratching too. There are lots of sexy ways to combine fingering and BDSM play.

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    Hey there, I'm a 29 year old Korean, standing at 5'10" with brown eyes and dark hair, currently weighing 189 pounds and actively working on it by going to the gym 5 days a week/having 10k+ steps a day.
    I've been in BDSM 11 years, I seek a balance between non-sexual and sexual dynamics, exploring shared kinks, and cherishing our time together beyond the intimate moments. In a relationship, I look to build a firm foundation which will be made as we get to know one another. There will be no rushing, my priority is knowing that you feel safe and comfortable.
    Outside of my dominant role, I work as a pharmacy tech who's studying for nursing. In my free time I relax by watching films like Stranger Things, 1899, Gravity Falls, Adventure Tales, many animes and many more. I also PC game, playing games like League of Legends, Cyberpunk 2077 and Baldur's Gate 3, outdoor ventures, cooking, and spending quality time with friends. Don't worry, oppa will carry you in League.
    As a Dominant, I'm strict, there are times when I will be soft when needed. My goal is for you to fully submit to me. Another goal of mine is help you become the best version of yourself. An example of this is if you're not drinking enough water or eating enough. I will task you to send me pictures of the water you're drinking or you eating enough at a certain time. If you’re not looking to better yourself and just want to just submit to someone like the good little slut you are, that’s fine too. I will task you send me a picture of your tits or pussy, also write on yourself if you’re comfortable with that. In moments where discipline is necessary, it will be used to accordingly. In moments where it's long distance and I can't use physical discipline, I wont use the silent treatment as a punishment. I’ll be using discipline such as edging for a week, writing a certain number of lines of what she did wrong, performing chores while wearing clothing that is either uncomfortable or distracting, wearing a specific outfit for the day.
    When given a command, I expect you to follow them. Your obedience will be rewarded with pleasure and affectionate affirmations like, "What a good girl you are". Affirmation will also be used in bed of course, "What a good little slut you are." After a tiring day at work, if I tell you to get on your knees and leave your mouth open, I expect to do so. You’ll be rewarded me grabbing a bundle of your hair and face fucking you, making you take every inch of me before I cum either inside your throat or over your face. When I tell you to get on the bed on all fours naked, I will reward you by bounding your hands behind you, fucking you vigorously before pushing myself as deep as possible, filling you with a hot stream of cum. When I’m sitting behind you, fingering you as I breathe heated breathes onto the back of your neck, I expect you to hold in your cum till you’re given permission to cum. When I tell you to hold back your orgasm, I want you to give it your all. With me, you won't have boring sex, you will have great sex.
    After our sessions together, aftercare will be given essentially. Aftercare includes cuddling up together and catching our breathes. Using affirmation of how much of a great job you did, helping each other clean up one another, talking about what we did great and something we'd like to try next time. I schedule one or two video sessions per week, where I can provide commands and direct your actions as I please.
    My kinks are:
    • BDSM
    • CNC
    • Cock warming
    • Creampies
    • Cunnilingus
    • Dominance
    • Degrading
    • Orgasm denial
    • Praise play
    • Sadist
    • Spanking
    My limits are:
    play
    • Leaving permanent marks (Like branding, I don't mind tattoos)
    • Piercing skins with foreign objects (Not piercings)
    s
    • Toilet play
    • Watersport
    What you can expect from me, someone who:
    • Is affectionate, dependable, empathetic genuine, humorful, intelligent, loyal, patient, perceptive, respectful and understanding
    • That will check up on you on a daily basis, communicating with you and genuinely care for how you are doing.
    • Will be committed in building a structure with you, a foundation to make every moment of our time together that much more meaningful.
    • Will be there for you.
    • That won't push you, unless it's for your benefits and you want to be pushed.
    • Will give you all my attention when we are together.
    • Will gladly and repeatedly give affirmation when it is needed.
    • Has a physical love language, cuddling, hugging, kissing, and of course spanking.
    What I'm searching for, someone who's:
    • Inexperienced or experienced
    • Goes to the gym/has an active life style. (This is preferred and not required)
    • Looking to communicate
    • Seeking a mono relationship
    • Both local and long distance connections are welcomed.
    If you decide to reach out, tell me about yourself. What you look like or a picture of yourself, I will send one too of myself. Your age, name, location, interests, hobbies, desires in a Dominant/lifestyle, as well as your kinks and limits. I will not be responding to 1 sentence responses.

    Hey there, I'm a 29 year old Korean, standing at 5'10" with brown eyes and dark hair, currently weighing 189 pounds and actively working on it by going to the gym 5 days a week/having 10k+ steps a day.
    I've been in BDSM 11 years, I seek a balance between non-sexual and sexual dynamics, exploring shared kinks, and cherishing our time together beyond the intimate moments. In a relationship, I look to build a firm foundation which will be made as we get to know one another. There will be no rushing, my priority is knowing that you feel safe and comfortable.
    Outside of my dominant role, I work as a pharmacy tech who's studying for nursing. In my free time I relax by watching films like Stranger Things, 1899, Gravity Falls, Adventure Tales, many animes and many more. I also PC game, playing games like League of Legends, Cyberpunk 2077 and Baldur's Gate 3, outdoor ventures, cooking, and spending quality time with friends. Don't worry, oppa will carry you in League.
    As a Dominant, I'm strict, there are times when I will be soft when needed. My goal is for you to fully submit to me. Another goal of mine is help you become the best version of yourself. An example of this is if you're not drinking enough water or eating enough. I will task you to send me pictures of the water you're drinking or you eating enough at a certain time. If you’re not looking to better yourself and just want to just submit to someone like the good little slut you are, that’s fine too. I will task you send me a picture of your tits or pussy, also write on yourself if you’re comfortable with that. In moments where discipline is necessary, it will be used to accordingly. In moments where it's long distance and I can't use physical discipline, I wont use the silent treatment as a punishment. I’ll be using discipline such as edging for a week, writing a certain number of lines of what she did wrong, performing chores while wearing clothing that is either uncomfortable or distracting, wearing a specific outfit for the day.
    When given a command, I expect you to follow them. Your obedience will be rewarded with pleasure and affectionate affirmations like, "What a good girl you are". Affirmation will also be used in bed of course, "What a good little slut you are." After a tiring day at work, if I tell you to get on your knees and leave your mouth open, I expect to do so. You’ll be rewarded me grabbing a bundle of your hair and face fucking you, making you take every inch of me before I cum either inside your throat or over your face. When I tell you to get on the bed on all fours naked, I will reward you by bounding your hands behind you, fucking you vigorously before pushing myself as deep as possible, filling you with a hot stream of cum. When I’m sitting behind you, fingering you as I breathe heated breathes onto the back of your neck, I expect you to hold in your cum till you’re given permission to cum. When I tell you to hold back your orgasm, I want you to give it your all. With me, you won't have boring sex, you will have great sex.
    After our sessions together, aftercare will be given essentially. Aftercare includes cuddling up together and catching our breathes. Using affirmation of how much of a great job you did, helping each other clean up one another, talking about what we did great and something we'd like to try next time. I schedule one or two video sessions per week, where I can provide commands and direct your actions as I please.
    My kinks are:
    • BDSM
    • CNC
    • Cock warming
    • Creampies
    • Cunnilingus
    • Dominance
    • Degrading
    • Orgasm denial
    • Praise play
    • Sadist
    • Spanking
    My limits are:
    play
    • Leaving permanent marks (Like branding, I don't mind tattoos)
    • Piercing skins with foreign objects (Not piercings)
    s
    • Toilet play
    • Watersport
    What you can expect from me, someone who:
    • Is affectionate, dependable, empathetic genuine, humorful, intelligent, loyal, patient, perceptive, respectful and understanding
    • That will check up on you on a daily basis, communicating with you and genuinely care for how you are doing.
    • Will be committed in building a structure with you, a foundation to make every moment of our time together that much more meaningful.
    • Will be there for you.
    • That won't push you, unless it's for your benefits and you want to be pushed.
    • Will give you all my attention when we are together.
    • Will gladly and repeatedly give affirmation when it is needed.
    • Has a physical love language, cuddling, hugging, kissing, and of course spanking.
    What I'm searching for, someone who's:
    • Inexperienced or experienced
    • Goes to the gym/has an active life style. (This is preferred and not required)
    • Looking to communicate
    • Seeking a mono relationship
    • Both local and long distance connections are welcomed.
    If you decide to reach out, tell me about yourself. What you look like or a picture of yourself, I will send one too of myself. Your age, name, location, interests, hobbies, desires in a Dominant/lifestyle, as well as your kinks and limits. I will not be responding to 1 sentence responses.

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