Is this weird or impossible?

[Deleted Member]

I have a specific kink, which has been a bit difficult for me to fully understand..
I don’t even see HOW or why..
But I always imagine a big frame, heavy weight, his body covering mine… feels terrifying, knowing he can overpower me, but he’s choosing to love me. That paradox danger + devotion, I find it so thrilling.. here’s where it gets odd

I love the image of him being the stronger, bigger, “crushing” ***… but also having him reduced to begging for my love, desperately asking for my hearts. him having physical dominance but emotional submission feeds the romance I crave.. power, then humility. It’s just intoxicating to watch a man who could destroy you physically fall apart for you emotionally.
What is this even called?! It feels so tangled and rare.

[fa****]

I think it’s call “the paradox fantasy”

[co****]

Hell that sounds like a realtionship to me

[no****]

A man bigger than you who has fallen for you. Sounds quite normal and possible to me.

[Xx****]

Thats just a dominant man that doesnt feel bad showing vulnerability when it comes to matters of the heart. A dominant that is also tender at the same time

[Da****]

That's classic Primal/prey Roles with the flavour of Beauty & the Beast. You'll find it, live it and love it. An Affectionate Predator can only be tamed with true love and synchronicity not just enticement.

[Deleted Member]

The Gentle Giant, fierce and scary in appearance but bends his heart for you.

[Deleted Member]

2 minutes ago, DaddyUchoose said:

That's classic Primal/prey Roles with the flavour of Beauty & the Beast. You'll find it, live it and love it. An Affectionate Predator can only be tamed with true love and synchronicity not just enticement.

Thank you, I appreciate the insight and that makes so much sense.

[Cr****]

I believe thats called "being a woman"

[Deleted Member]

"hello, based department?"

[om****]

Ever used a vacuum bed and he suckered the air out of the membrane?

[TA****]

You want to be a sub and dom at the same time beautiful...nothing wrong with that at all

[TA****]

You definitely deserve to do both you are beautiful and gorgeous

[wo****]

Extremely common in women. Women are attracted to “dark triad” traits also. A man who can savage their way through other men is a man who can protect you, even in a zombie apocalypse.

[me****]

This is totally me! I cry in my girlfriend's arms almost everyday. But when we fuck, she gets man handled and tossed around a bit. She's a tall girl but she loves that I'm much bigger and stronger than her

[Deleted Member]

This sounds like an adult version of a Disney movie I want to see!

[Ch****]

It's a beauty and beast situation. A masculine partner who could tear you apart physically. Giving you the sense of protection and domination. However, eager and wanting your approval for the thing that can't be taken by ***. Yes, they're strong enough to take physically, but emotionally, it has to be earned. I usually refer to this as the teddy bear or belle and beast kink. The stereotype of a big guy with a gentle soul even if it's just for you.

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Welcome to Vet life lmao

[Bi****]

My girl loves this about our dynamic, she’s very small and I’m 6’6 and a bit heavier, so she loves feeling me above her and controlling the dynamic, but loves that I’m still telling her how much it means to me that she chose me and that I’m hers. Lots of eye contact really pushes her over the edge 😉

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2 hours ago, woburn169344 said:

Extremely common in women. Women are attracted to “dark triad” traits also. A man who can savage their way through other men is a man who can protect you, even in a zombie apocalypse.

A “dark triad” man wouldn’t keep you safe in an apocalypse, bc they don’t care about anyone else. If they could use you or trade you for something useful, maybe briefly. But they’re too selfish to risk themselves for the good of others. Also, “dark triad” is a psychological term, and does not imbue survival skills 🤣

[sl****]

Its called: me.

[wo****]

A “dark triad” man wouldn’t keep you safe in an apocalypse, bc they don’t care about anyone else. If they could use you or trade you for something useful, maybe briefly. But they’re too selfish to risk themselves for the good of others. Also, “dark triad” is a psychological term, and does not imbue survival skills 🤣

They are called “traits” for a reason love. Put down your psych 101 book, I work in the field

[Lu****]

That’s called being mentally unstable as a man, not following nature in any way. The first part is natural. But the second part is unstable. Men are supposed to be unshakable.

[Deleted Member]

I think it makes perfect sense! I also think it might stem from something you’ve seen or perhaps fantasized about while you were at the gym. But 🤷🏼‍♂️ either way I think it’s hot and I think you should go for it with your next partner

[Deleted Member]

I think you might be more addicted to attention and likes than to focus on what you have and what man are there to offer.