Why you like giving head??

[Ab****]

I know there are a lot of people that genuinely love giving blowjobs. Sucking dick is fun to a lot of you. But it's always confused me... I look under my pants and all I see happening is choking and discomfort, why is that fun for so many of you??

(I'm not judging btw, asking so I can help givw my partners a better time. I figure if I know why you like it then I can figure out how to make it better)

[Deleted Member]

I just did it bc I could, now I don't have to 😆

JK I think it could be one thing or it could be multiple things. They enjoy submitting, maybe having oral fixations on things in their mouth, maybe it's simply the love for results or the constant reminder that what they're doing is working, bc if it's not that meat stick won't stay pointy and won't end with a bang.

[Co****]

I’m not into the discomfort of the act, but I do it to give pleasure to my partner. It’s not about choking on it, but how to properly play with it with your mouth and tongue

[ge****]

If someone is choking or getting discomfort, there's a strong likelihood (unless ch*king or discomfort is their "thing") that they're doing it wrong or their partner is. 

I love giving blowjobs, I like the taste and the feel, like the murmurs and moans of pleasure they induce and much more besides -yes they can make you gag or ch*ke, but that doesn't overly bother me unless someone tries to ram it so far down my throat without any warning - but if you are aware of both your own movements and those of a partner they don't have to *** or make you gag, it's about maintaining a depth of penetration you're comfortable with, mixing it up with licks and other stuff and not allowing it to be uncomfortable or cause you to gag or ch*ke etc.

[Gr****]

For me it’s the submission and servitude aspect. I look up at my partner as he towers over me and I love the challenge of trying to take all of him without choking. All the while knowing that he likes the power flex when he grabs the back of my head and slowly pulls me in to get his cock further down my throat. The momentary discomfort pales in comparison to the pleasure I know he gets when I eagerly give him a throat hug.

[kn****]

I’m a gay man and it’s mostly about wanting to please the man I’m with. The desire to please him is important to me. I may not get it all down but I want to make sure he has an amazing experience. Especially if you are in a place he is horny but you all can’t fuck.

[Mongrel]

I'm a heterosexual man, so this maybe kinda off-topic, but I do enjoy the gasping for air, discomfort and especially the serving/submitting part when licking pussy. For example, I longed for more *** from my ex-girlfriend when going down on her, but she didn't want that. Why shouldn't some women have similar wishes?

[to****]

Well as a cross dresser personally I enjoy doing it makes me feel so feminine I also kinda like the feeling of a full mouth I enjoy pleasing my partner

[li****]

Its for me that I'm giving pleasure and the more I turn u on the wetter I get
And not having been born. With a cock on my body its fascinating and forgin to me how the cock works which I find exciting

[Dr****]

The more I munch gets me harder also!

[Ocupus]

Think about kissing or sucking and licking a lollipop, they're enjoyable oral stimulation activities and sucking cock is another one with the added sexual element, ability to give pleasure to another and associated arousal (either or both parties). Maybe if you enjoy eating pussy you can see how it's just an anatomy difference to that

[ma****]

I see this like a good magic trick. Everyone wants to know the trick, but I do not for if you know the how the magician does it it’s not magic anymore. Some things are just better to enjoy and not try to figure out. Find a partner that does and admire their dedication.

[Kn****]

There's a few things that I really enjoy about sucking on a guys cock. I love that I can give him a different kind of pleasure based on what he wants at the time. Everything from sensual and relaxing, good old fashion everyday kind of blow job, full on submissive where he's in control or me just going full throttle on him and enthusiastically giving him everything I got. There is also the knowledge that some people think it's a dirty or bad thing and I love that I get to do something "bad" and slutty.

[Re****]

For me I enjoy eating a woman out, the way I make her feel, its not guaranteed but I have gotten woman to orgasim. Sometimes my jaw and toung cramp up, but I still go at because what it dose to her, and that taste, and she tastes good.

[cl****]

Yes I don't get the whole choking themselves either thing. It looks good and I guess it makes us feel big. But the back of the throat doesn't really feel like anything. You're gonna make a guy cum by stroking it and sucking it ... And moaning lol

[Dr****]

Do you like to eat pussy? (I know I do) I imagine it's a similar thing.

[Br****]

Nice

[Deleted Member]

I mean I love pleasing my partner. Also I’ve noticed it’s one of the few times men react to sex more than random grunts. The gasps, the hands in my hair, heads falling back, looking up to lust filled eyes…

God I get turned on just thinking about. Not to mention I’m genuinely turned on by male orgasms. I will legit watch creampie/male ejaculation videos just to cum with the men.

[Re****]

4 hours ago, hi_itsjess said:

I mean I love pleasing my partner. Also I’ve noticed it’s one of the few times men react to sex more than random grunts. The gasps, the hands in my hair, heads falling back, looking up to lust filled eyes…

God I get turned on just thinking about. Not to mention I’m genuinely turned on by male orgasms. I will legit watch creampie/male ejaculation videos just to cum with the men.

Well your definitely a good keeper. Its just so much fun seeing and knowing what happiness and joy we can bring our partner.

[Deleted Member]

3 minutes ago, RedLion64 said:

Well your definitely a good keeper. Its just so much fun seeing and knowing what happiness and joy we can bring our partner.

It is. I enjoy seeing them being happy and feeling good. I always strive to do that along with giving the world to them. I’d burn the world down for them too. Idk I might just be too intense to keep though at least that’s my experience. lol. 😂

[Re****]

Lol, if you have a check and balance, you seem to be a remarkable fine lady a true gentleman would be honored to have and hold. But yea it can be a down fall aswell, too nice for our own good, some would take advantage of.

[Mongrel]

Tuesday at 02:21 PM, RedLion64 said:

For me I enjoy eating a woman out, the way I make her feel, its not guaranteed but I have gotten woman to orgasim. Sometimes my jaw and toung cramp up, but I still go at because what it dose to her, and that taste, and she tastes good.

Bro I feel that deep in my soul 😄 Having to push through, and often, gives me a sense pride. Like a husky who needs to pull a sleigh until he's exhausted, otherwise he's going nuts kinda situation 😁

[showmeurtds]

On 9/23/2025 at 8:45 AM, KnoxCpl said:

There's a few things that I really enjoy about sucking on a guys cock. I love that I can give him a different kind of pleasure based on what he wants at the time. Everything from sensual and relaxing, good old fashion everyday kind of blow job, full on submissive where he's in control or me just going full throttle on him and enthusiastically giving him everything I got. There is also the knowledge that some people think it's a dirty or bad thing and I love that I get to do something "bad" and slutty.

 

[Vo****]

There are two different ways of giving head for me. As a switch, I enjoy both. I can give head and submit totally, letting you deepthroat me or I can take control and edge you with my mouth for hours. Difference? When I'm in charge DO NOT TOUCH MY HAIR. But in that case, you'll be probably all tied up.