Kink Up Your Steak and Blowjob Day

Valentine’s Day has been and gone but have you heard of Steak and Blowjob Day? Billed as 'Valentine's Day for men', March 14th is dedicated to satisfying lusts and raising money for Breast Cancer. Fetish.com’s Victoria Blisse has some tips for kinking up a celebration that at first seems oddly prescriptive. With a little imagination, you can have a Steak and Blowjob day filled with Fetish fun!

Spice up your blowjob

A blowjob is a blowjob, right? Nope, there are lots of ways to change up your blowjob game. How about sucking a mint before you go down on your partner? It’ll provide a tingly sensation to them, and you’ll feel minty fresh! Try a flavoured lubricant, to add a bit more slip to your lips and a different taste for you to enjoy. You might think saliva is enough, and it usually is, but maybe wetter could be better!


 

Two blowjobs instead of one?

Why should it just be your lips doing all the hard work? Stroke his balls with your fingers or give them a gentle squeeze to make his knees tremble with lust.

Add a vibrating cock ring into your play, to add a second sensation for your lover to enjoy and see how much it makes your lips tingle too. Who’s going to say no to some sexy, good vibrations!

There are lots of male masturbators out there now that give the sensation of receiving a blowjob. Maybe you could use one of these and compare and contrast the device to the job you can do with your mouth? I’m sure there’s not a guy out there who will refuse two blowjobs instead of one!
 

Change it up

Just because it’s a Blowjob it doesn’t mean your mouth always has to be around his cock. Why not give him a little surprise by kissing and biting his thighs. Not only will it give him a thrill, but it also gives your jaw a bit of a break when needed. It could leave some interesting love bites too, he’ll remember you every time his thighs rub together.

If your guy enjoys really enjoys a bit of pain, maybe you can take the biting further, but nibbling on his cock but be sure to make sure that’s okay by him first. You don’t want to give pain that doesn’t end in pleasure for all participants after all!
 

Male Chastity

It might be Steak and Blowjob day, but once you’ve given the blowjob, maybe you could lock your other half in chastity. How long for? Well that’s up to you. There are all kinds of cages you can use depending on what you want to do. From silicon to metal, there are various sizes and textures of cock cage out there.  Lock up your sub in chastity and keep the key. It’s the gift that keeps on giving for both of you.

Again, as with all fetish play, agree your partner’s limits before you lock the cock cage or chastity device and if you’re particularly mean, there’s an opportunity to get your Sub aroused inside that cage. It could be fun frustrating him with your teasing ways!


Lock your partner up with a chastity device. 
 

How about Cock and Ball Torture?

Maybe there isn’t room for a blowjob in your particular dynamic. You can still celebrate. Enjoy that steak with a side order of cock and ball torture (CBT) loved by many male submissives.

CBT is an umbrella term for lots of different torture activities that focus on a man’s penis and testicles, which can be extreme. For example, ball-busting involves being punched or kicked directly in the crotch. However, there are CBT activities that aren’t quite so violent.

Make your submissive wear a humbler, a device that locks around his testicles and behind his knees. While using this on him, it would be possible to give him a blowjob if you so desired. It could get quite painful, but let’s face it, he’ll probably like that.

Please be very careful with any CBT activity as male genitals are delicate and can be easily damaged. Be sure to check in regularly with your submissive, to make sure there is no numbness or extreme pain brought on by the activities. After all, the ultimate aim when inflicting this kind of pain is pleasure for both the sadist and the masochist.
 

Be safe, sane & consensual

However you decide to indulge on Steak and Blowjob day, be safe, sane and consensual and if you’re indulging in risky behaviour be risk aware. No one wants a trip to A&E on a day which is meant to be all about celebrating sexy fun.

With all these hints and tips you’ve got the key to a perfect steak and blowjob day celebration, in fact, all you need now is the steak!  Invite your partner(s) to celebrate steak and blowjob day and raise money for breast cancer.  #steakandbjday. 


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Image credits: Male chastity device: By Oetang2 (Own work) [CC BY-SA 4.0] via Wikimedia Commons