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Risk Aware Consensual Kink | SSC vs RACK Explained

Many kinksters keep their play within the realm of SSC (Safe Sane and Consensual). But there comes a time when an intermediate or advanced player's practice can enter RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink). Here's our guide to different types of play involved.

 

Risk aware consensual kink explained

Maybe you want to delve deeper into your subspace or assert ownership over a human pet in a new way. Risk aware consensual kink puts more emphasis on informed consent around more advanced kink activities. With the right information and intent, one can bridge between these two stages of practice - straddling the familiar and the unknown.

A great way to begin exploring is through experimentation with tools or gear that invoke the more extreme of physical sensation, paired with the implementation of basic safety protocol. It might feel boring or mundane to self-impose hard boundaries over the parameters of an entire scene, but the more controlled your environment, the more freedom allotted for exploring new sensations.

Tools that leave marks on the skin can serve as excellent gateways into rougher (yet controlled) types of BDSM play, such as spanking paddles, belts, knives or teeth. And on the more creative end, abrasive rope. Learning how to leave semi-permanent marks is an excellent middle-ground between standard impact play and drawing ***.

 

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Knife play

Knife play is almost always thought of as synonymous with *** play. But regarding SSC vs risk aware consensual kink, knives can function very much on their own without drawing ***. On a fundamental level, knives can be used for their *** factor alone, and in many cases don't require contact with skin to achieve the desired reaction.

But when knives do touch skin, they can do so without making a mess. Human skin has many layers (five in the epidermis alone).  And it's possible to break several of them before breaching the dermis, which contains *** vessels and nerve endings. For perspective, the skin is roughly 3mm at its thickest points on the body (such as the palms and back).

To prevent splicing through too many layers, one can use the tip of a knife with its sharp side facing up. Choose a fatty body surface that has some pull (like the thigh) and start with a line or a scratch. This way, you get a feel for how much pressure your bottom is comfortable with. Different people also have different levels of skin sensitivity. Experiment gently to determine how much pressure is necessary to cause the upper level of the epidermis to tear, and for *** to blister beneath this layer. This causes the affected area to redden and leaves a semi-permanent scar.

Even if the knife blade only scratches at the skin, a strike or spank to the affected area will rush the *** up to that portion of the surface, colouring the mark red. Once comfort levels are established, the top can have some fun deciding what kinds of marks to make–from art to scratches. Initials are an easy way for your sub to remember who's boss whenever they get dressed or take a shower. (Marks like these glow red under hot water.)

 

Biting - risk aware consensual kink
Risk aware consensual kink - biting without drawing ***.

 

Biting

It's challenging to leave bite scars without drawing ***. But with the help of a little technique, most of us learned in high school; you can garnish your partner(s) with bite marks. This approach starts the same way anyone would leave a hickey, by sucking on a thin portion of skin aggressively. It ends with grabbing the aggravated section of skin with your front teeth and tugging. The result is an isolated hickey manifesting in a pearled line of teeth marks.

It's easier to do this on a thin layer of skin such as the neck. But if aggression is your aim, then all other bodily surfaces are your canvas. With the added help of your teeth, you should be able to leave a mark anywhere.

 

Speckled bruises

These small, ***tered bruises take the form of reddish-purple dots - sometimes manifesting in a shaded cluster, other times displaying as individual polka dots with no colour between them. In the context of BDSM, they are often the result of impact play from a wide surface area, such as a paddle or hand. Speckled bruises can last up to a month or more, particularly if they are layered on top of each other (from multiple play sessions).

*** and efficiency are the keys to leaving this specific type of bruise. Impact aimed towards speckled bruising should be hard and fast. It's a subtle difference, but if you belt someone and don't pull away quickly enough, the impact will spread to a larger surface area, creating a regular-sized bruise. The goal for this sort of impact play should not be to permeate the flesh but to whack it. The harder and deeper the blow, the more prone you are to developing a fully fleshed out bruise (pun intended). The faster and more momentum the strike has, the more likely it is to cause an immediate stinging sensation leading to speckled bruising.

 

Rope play 

While you can get rope burn from any rope during rope play, the best kind of bondage rope for the sake of masochism is a fibre that's more abrasive and threadbare, like those used for nautical purposes. The threadiness and density make it ideal for causing minor to severe skin irritation through friction. Simply replacing the natural or synthetic rope with something more fibrous in your regular bondage practice is an excellent place to start. If your partner is fussy in bondage, rash-like red marks will surely show on them after a session in nautical rope. Even if a bound person remains still, this rope will leave scratch marks from minor abrasion.


Risk aware consensual kink SSC vs RACK
Risk aware consensual kink and rope play.
 

How long do marks last?

Different kinds of marks have varying lifespans. Anything left by a knife (even if it doesn't draw ***) leaves the potential for scarring. The best way to combat this is by diligently applying a medicated topical ointment such as Neosporin over the affected area. In the best-case scenario, this will nearly fully erase the mark with possible residual discolouration.

Hickey's fade within a few days or a week, depending on how wide and deep the bruise. However, there are several home remedies for quickening the recovery process. An ice or a cold compress can be applied several times a day to reduce bleeding, and peppermint oil improves circulation, which helps break up clotted ***. If a few hours have passed, rubbing alcohol has shown healing benefits for many.

If a person is bound tightly for any prolonged time, the rope will typically leave a temporary impression in some places. Depending on their intensity, these marks tend to last no more than a day or two.

 

Risk aware consensual kink and legality

While most sex acts are protected under UK laws regarding consent (more so in Northern Ireland than elsewhere), it's within the authority of law en***rs to incriminate those who inflict harm unto another as *** OABH or *** Occasioning Actual Bodily Harm. While BDSM-centric acts are not included in the Sexual Offences Act 2003, this amended law dating back to 1861 is still in effect as it relates to sex and non-sex related crimes.

According to the US penal code, physical harm not deemed serious is legal when consented. However, BDSM-centric activities can and do get prosecuted as ***. Regardless of geographical location, practitioners of BDSM should always be conscientious of local laws and partake responsibly.
 

Zoë Tersche is a New York-based writer focusing on fetish sexuality and the freedom of sexual expression. 


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