BDSM

A BDSM breakup can feel more intense than a vanilla split, but healing is possible. Whether you're a Dom, sub, or kinkster, this guide offers practical steps to process emotions, rebuild confidence, and move forward with strength and self-awareness. They say breaking up is hard to do, but in th

You may have recently heard of gooning, but what exactly is involved in this mastubatory method? Victoria Blisse discusses this trending topic and explores gooning vs edging. Living in the modern world is hectic: we have so many things to think about and so many responsibilities that li

What is tribbing and how is it different from scissoring? Victoria Blisse rubs her hands together in glee to give you all the juicy details on tribbing and tribadism... You know, it’s not just crafters who know a lot about scissoring! In Pornhub’s 2022 year in review, it was revealed tha

After growing up in a household where sex was shamed, discovering BDSM helped Sienna Saint-Cyr to find self-acceptance and enjoyment when it came to her sexual life. Coming to grips with being kinky when you've been raised in a religious or very conservative household isn't easy. When

While there's many causes and treatments of depression and mental health issues, some have found solace in what may appear to be an unlikely place: BDSM play. As someone living with chronic depression, kinky author M. Christian offers his perspective and advice... While the exact numbers are

A nibble on the neck or ear can be incredibly erotic. But what if your partner wants to go further and really sink their teeth in? Then they may be displaying a biting kink, AKA odaxelagnia. Victoria Blisse shows you how to practise this fetish safely. Biting the bullet; digging your tee

Mummification bondage is the ultimate BDSM restriction kink, but it can also be a high-risk activity. So, how can you practise it both sexily and safely? Get your plastic wrap ready and let Victoria Blisse guide you on how to get mummified. The cartoon series Scooby-Doo has a lot to answer f

Does size really matter? Well, if you're into macrophilia, then the answer is: hell, yeah! Members of our FET community with a fetish for giantess sex tell our very own dirtybird why it's a turn-on, plus discover five practical tips to bring a giantess fantasy to life during play. Welcome to the wor

A glass of wine never hurts... or does it? Our BDSM advice guru Molly explains why it's particularly important to remain sober and fully conscious during BDSM play sessions. Dear Molly, I'm fairly new to kink and BDSM and especially play events. I read the rules of a Christmas kinky p

Do you like the idea of being ***ed and used by your partner? Or maybe it's a burglar breaking into your home and holding you against your will? Whatever consensual non-consent (CNC) kink turns you on, Molly is here to explain how to explore it without running intro trouble. Dear Molly

Most of us have some level of body hair, be it on our heads or other places. And while some of us hate hair on ourselves or others, other kinksters are real fans of fur! Victoria Blisse cuts to the chase to all the layers of hair fetish, AKA trichophilia. Do you get turned on by someone

Blindfolded, ball-gagged and bound to a bench, or cuffed to a swing overlooking a sedate lake? Outdoor bondage is all about being restrained in public. Alex Hopkins discusses prepping for public BDSM and the crucial safety and legal considerations of such outside entertainment.

Got a fetish for mammoth muscle? Discover more about the dynamics of muscle worship – or sthenolagnia to give it its proper name. And while gay muscle worship is clearly a big thing among males, female muscle fetish is also a kink gaining in popularity. Within the world of muscle worship,

Spend any amount of time in the kink community, and eventually someone will refer to 'Old Guard' when talking about BDSM, and specifically Dominance and submission. But what does BDSM Old Guard mean? We asked writer Kayla Lords to explore the roots of this BDSM dynamic. The origins of the

If the idea of wanking in the woods or jerking off in public turns you on, you’re not alone. Indeed, outdoor masturbation is a common fantasy that many kinksters indulge in. But, as Victoria Blisse explains, while masturbating in public can be a turn-on, it also carry risks. If, like me, you

Masturbation doesn’t have to be repetitive. Combining meditation and tantric touch into your self-pleasure sessions can wake up your wanking. So, from reducing anxiety to discovering new erogenous zones, Alex Hopkins outlines seven benefits of mindful masturbation. So many of us do it –

Orgasms. Who doesn't want more of them or even have multiple orgasms? Some people with vulvas have no problem coming, but others find it impossible. Victoria Blisse explores the secrets to ultimate self-pleasure, how to have multiple orgasms, squirting, and more... In 2011 a study found

This month our BDSM advice guru Molly helps out one woman kinkster who is new to self-pleasure. From props to positions, discover some great female masturbation techniques and tips with our winning ways to wank. Dear Molly, During my marriage, my husband and I had what I thought was an

Butt stuff is brilliant and pegging is fun, but sometimes you want to experience that same booty-loving pleasure alone. So, how do you get down with fingering your own asshole during anal masturbation? Victoria Blisse explores the joy of solo anal orgasm for all genders. Anal has forever

Are you loony for balloons? Does the thought of popping balloons or rubbing yourself with them turn you on? If so, you could be a looner: a kinkster with a balloon fetish. But is looning all about 'once you pop, you can't stop'? Our Molly gives you the lowdown... Do you find balloons a turn

Do belly buttons turn you on? If the idea of licking or playing with an innie or outtie during sex presses your buttons, these tips from Victoria Blisse will help you enjoy navel play or a belly button fetish (alvinophilia) further. Belly buttons aren’t buttons you press to get more tumm

Within the kink community, the concept of Dom/me and sub are well understood, but there's also a vast diversity of what those words mean to us. This week, our resident advice columnist explains sensual Domination to one FET member who's curious about what it all means. Dear Molly, I've

Do you like the sound of sounding? Urethral sounding is often associated with penis play, but if you have a vulva, you can also enjoy it. Curious to know more? In this comprehensive guide, we’ll explore everything you need to know about female sounding or female urethral sounding, helping you discov

Victoria Blisse explores the fetish of omorashi and finds out why so many kinksters are desperate to try *** desperation! Discover more about the *** and pleasure involved in this curious kink. We all know that sensation, we’ve all been there; a full bladder and that foot-to-foot shuffl