Newer to Hotwifing

[SluttyGirlfriend]

I’m new to being a slutty girlfriend. My man loves it but any tips for a newbie? :)

[ho****]

Gal I'm a guy I'd say the Lesser amount of clothes u wear and stay up on lookin as slooty as u can keeps a guy droolin'

[Co****]

It’s not a race. Don’t rush all the different steps? Levels? (Things to do)
Go at your own pace
Part of the thrill you that YOU are in charge and don’t have to have a reason

Do what feels slutty. If it doesn’t feel slutty it probably looks as awkward as it feels.

[Co****]

4 minutes ago, CompersionIsMyLife said:

It’s not a race. Don’t rush all the different steps? Levels? (Things to do)
Go at your own pace
Part of the thrill you that YOU are in charge and don’t have to have a reason

Do what feels slutty. If it doesn’t feel slutty it probably looks as awkward as it feels.

You look like a delicious slut in your profile pic too btw. Nobody is going to ask you to stop posting pictures to your profile 😁

[ju****]

Never do anything that you don't enthusiastically want to do

[Lu****]

Keep it 100 ig

[Wi****]

Play around with who your playing with, maybe something that triggers some kinky thoughts in him.

[Fe****]

Think about it and how you want it to happen and then work together to make the situation where it can work that way. Trying to get men to have free sex is like herding cats and sometimes I wonder how our species has managed to survive when I think about the things men have said and done when offered what they were looking for and just had to come do it. I recommended clearly explaining what their role will be and what your limits are. Immediately block anyone that responds by testing those boundaries, asks for video chats, phone numbers, or anything at all outside of what was explicitly offered. Work to make contact with about 5 to 10 times more men than you want. Some are unable to find an address or figure out what time they should start traveling to be there when they're invited. Many will be predisposed or not actually interested in anything beyond asking questions. A couple common sense questions can help make things work smoothly but if someone seems to just want to have something to read while they masturbate or they can't understand what you're doing, you probably don't want to try to get them to show up. Don't hesitate to block simply to keep your active communications completely productive as you'll find this is quite a task. I have handled most of the coordination when I was helping partners satisfy their body's urges and yeah, just give instructions to potential participants and block them as they stray from the simple task of being there, acting respectfully and filling you. You'll hopefully end up with a channel populated with men who are working on coming to fill you. If you let them get you off track, you'll waste hours trying to figure out what each one is going to try to do and probably get annoyed with the whole thing. It's probably best to arrange it days in advance but most of the situations I've helped with were initially spontaneous decisions so I'm used to trying to have something happening in about 5 to 7 hours. Another thing is block anyone asking about seeing you alone and don't be left alone with anyone until you have gotten started with them and they show that they can actually do what you want. It can range from awkward to dangerous to be in a *** position with someone who intends to do something you don't want them to.

[Fe****]

As for yourself, I have helped quite a few women to get started with group sex and the main thing is that if you like thinking about it and you feel like you're safe, just let it happen and once you're feeling it, you'll realize what you're doing and probably enjoy it a lot. Every single one I've helped was surprised how much she enjoyed it, even if she had been really excited about it beforehand

[AmandaMonsterLady]

Dress and do things that make you feel sexy. A separate wardrobe and makeup style helps me to get into roles. No matter what that is. Don’t be afraid to set boundaries and to say no if you don’t want something. Especially early on. Otherwise you’ll hate it and the people around.

[Ki****]

Communication is key