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Is it wrong to get turned on when you make a woman cry?

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not if she enjoys what you are doing to make her cry, yes if she doesn't

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Avoid Binary thinking - think person centred.

 

Is what I am doing enjoyable to both participants?

Is it safe?

Can we as best as possible reduce any long-term adverse consequences of the particular play?

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context is of course important.

if it's through consensual activity - sure - of course, it can be weird to deal with - but, y'know. Fair.

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If it's cos you've done something genuinely bad that's mad her cry - or something you've done wrong... you can't control body impulses, but you can ignore them.   

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16 minutes ago, Koby said:

Avoid Binary thinking - think person centred.

 

Is what I am doing enjoyable to both participants?

Is it safe?

Can we as best as possible reduce any long-term adverse consequences of the particular play?

100% agree from my own personal perspective and that of consenting partners. The absolute MUST is communication and consent; just like any other activity, if it is not a shared experience for mutual fulfilment then it’s not ok.
Personal experience and opinion only.

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I cry when I eat a really spicy Thai Fish Salad, and my nose starts running.
I love it, as it is the chlli fix kicking in. 

As others have said it is about the context and if it was consensual. 
Also, talk to her about it. 

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Can you give us an example of this @Asbo?

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Dacryphilia is not un common but as mentioned the who what why when and how is

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Really, only you can answer this for yourself, being the only one to know the details and how you felt about it.

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What were the circumstances, need more information please.

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I've cried from a cropping. My Dom loved that i cried. It was consensual and i could have used safe word but i wanted to see how much i could take. He was very turned on and he gave me lots of loving after. So it depends

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4 hours ago, Rabbit_Anime said:

I like it when people make me cry so I have no idea I guess it's just depending on the person. But then again that's my personal opinion.

surely it depends under what circumstances, like Jenny I've enjoyed crying from a cropping but if it was from emotional ***- ut oh no way

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