Personal details

Gender Man Woman
Age 43 28
Height 180cm 167cm
Weight 64kg 45kg
Body shape Average build Slim
Eye colour Other Green
Hair colour Black Other
Hair length Long Long
Beard Goatie
Orientation Straight Bisexual
Ethnicity Other
Origin USA
Pubic Hair Part shaved Part shaved
Body hair Some hair None
Breast size B
Zodiac signs Aries Virgo
Glasses
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings

About us

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Description

Lifestyle sadist, ethical predator, philosophical libertine.


"Cade", in Three Acts.

Three things you should know if I interest you: 1. I am a sadist, 2. I am polyamorous, and 3. I am for real. The following blog post will explain why these are important if you are interested in striking up a friendship with me, or more. Above all else be aware that I value experience and truth, and am willing to prove my integrity. Trust is created for me through one's actions matching their words, and as such, must be built over time.

  1. I'm a sadist. A sadist is someone that gains pleasure from pain, typically thru inflicting. That is no less true for myself, and I use mental exploits like humiliation and objectification, as well as, physical acts like caning and needle play or cutting. I enjoy bruises and welts, and tears turn me on intensely. Of course, I have strict safety rules for play and interactions, and am constantly looking to increase my experience and knowledge in risk assessment and other safety concerns/disciplines. I belong to a community of like-minded individuals which can provide my character references, both personal and professional...and I am a member of multiple groups that participate in spreading acceptance through education of alternative relationship dynamics. If you have questions about my fetishes or background in sadism, please feel free to ask.

  2. I'm polyamorous. The literal definition for polyamory is "many loves", but I think it's better summed up as having the capacity to love and be loved by more than one person in an open and honest manner. As such, I would say it is important to know that I am in a relationship with with a female, living with me. The female is my collared submissive, being trained as my slave. she has proven her obedience and worth as a servant, and I am honored to have her in my life. Despite this, we are looking to add another submissive female to our House. I like to think I am a unique and exceptional individual, and know for sure the others in my relationship are...you will meet them if you prove yourself worthy and prospective enough that I might add you to our lives. Their safety is paramount.

  3. I'm real. The points this blog outlines are not details of role playing or the way I dream of living my life; they are the actuality and truth of my existence. This is my lifestyle...I choose to live my life by alternative methods. My lifestyle identifies and honors each of our intrinsic values as dominants or submissives that threads through every aspect of life, in the vanilla world as much as the animal kingdom. After reading all this about me all I ask is that you don't judge me. I am as human as you are and am just trying to find happiness just like you. I will be tolerant and respectful of your life choices because you have to live by them, and my choices will never effect you unless you allow them. Thank you for reading through this, I hope it is helpful in deciding your interest in me.

    The undiscovered (and elusive) 4. You. If you've really read this far in all this rabble, then you're probably wondering what I am expecting from interactions with you, what I want, or what my ideal individual is that I'd like to meet. Let's be frank, this is an online/mobile networking site designed to allow people to meet across distances. You can be anyone and anything a mind can think of and words can describe, your intelligence and mastery of this vocabulary seem crucial to being able to express yourself and your desire succinctly. Among being intelligent, I should hope that you are open and accepting to the world I may be introducing you to...however, if you are not real, that will become obvious eventually, disappointing everyone involved. Know who you are and be confident in your experiences...it's good to stop seeing mistakes negatively and identify them as chances to learn. Going to more personal considerations, you would be a submissive/masochistic female, know why you identify as such, approximately age: 25-35 and happy.

Fantasies

Our desired relationship is a poly M/f/f triad.

Forum Index


Topical Articles:

  1. Clash in Kink-Positivity: Triggers versus Fetish; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1374-clash-in-kink-positivity-triggers-versus-fetish/
  2. Community of Babel; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1440-community-of-babel/

    • (CoB) Labels are Your Friend, not Life Partner; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1461-cob-labels-are-your-friend-not-life-partner/
    • (CoB) Listen and Ask Questions; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1538-cob-listen-and-ask-questions/

      Tales:

  3. A Night Out; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1586-a-night-out/
  4. The Crying Game; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1748-the-crying-game/
    • (CG) Round One; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1769-cg-round-one/
    • (CG) Round Two; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1793-cg-round-two/
    • (CG) Round Three; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1830-cg-round-three/
    • (CG) Round Four; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1954-cg-round-four/
  5. The Shoe Shine Girl; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1364-the-shoe-shine-girl/
  6. The Wolf and bunny; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1517-the-wolf-and-bunny/
  7. Third Person; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1393-third-person/
  8. "Yes"; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1711-yes/

    Poetry:

  9. Crux; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1550-crux/
  10. "I know why she cries"; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1416-i-know-why-she-cries/

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Anyone know of any kinky Halloween parties coming up?

Rocky Horror Picture Show with shadow play! Super excited, it's been years since I've been able to do RHPS.

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