Personal details

Gender Man Woman
Age 43 28
Height 180cm 167cm
Weight 64kg 45kg
Body shape Average build Slim
Eye colour Other Green
Hair colour Black Other
Hair length Long Long
Beard Goatie
Orientation Straight Bisexual
Ethnicity Other
Origin USA
Pubic Hair Part shaved Part shaved
Body hair Some hair None
Breast size B
Zodiac signs Aries Virgo
Glasses
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings

About us

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Description

Lifestyle sadist, ethical predator, philosophical libertine.


"Cade", in Three Acts.

Three things you should know if I interest you: 1. I am a sadist, 2. I am polyamorous, and 3. I am for real. The following blog post will explain why these are important if you are interested in striking up a friendship with me, or more. Above all else be aware that I value experience and truth, and am willing to prove my integrity. Trust is created for me through one's actions matching their words, and as such, must be built over time.

  1. I'm a sadist. A sadist is someone that gains pleasure from pain, typically thru inflicting. That is no less true for myself, and I use mental exploits like humiliation and objectification, as well as, physical acts like caning and needle play or cutting. I enjoy bruises and welts, and tears turn me on intensely. Of course, I have strict safety rules for play and interactions, and am constantly looking to increase my experience and knowledge in risk assessment and other safety concerns/disciplines. I belong to a community of like-minded individuals which can provide my character references, both personal and professional...and I am a member of multiple groups that participate in spreading acceptance through education of alternative relationship dynamics. If you have questions about my fetishes or background in sadism, please feel free to ask.

  2. I'm polyamorous. The literal definition for polyamory is "many loves", but I think it's better summed up as having the capacity to love and be loved by more than one person in an open and honest manner. As such, I would say it is important to know that I am in a relationship with with a female, living with me. The female is my collared submissive, being trained as my slave. she has proven her obedience and worth as a servant, and I am honored to have her in my life. Despite this, we are looking to add another submissive female to our House. I like to think I am a unique and exceptional individual, and know for sure the others in my relationship are...you will meet them if you prove yourself worthy and prospective enough that I might add you to our lives. Their safety is paramount.

  3. I'm real. The points this blog outlines are not details of role playing or the way I dream of living my life; they are the actuality and truth of my existence. This is my lifestyle...I choose to live my life by alternative methods. My lifestyle identifies and honors each of our intrinsic values as dominants or submissives that threads through every aspect of life, in the vanilla world as much as the animal kingdom. After reading all this about me all I ask is that you don't judge me. I am as human as you are and am just trying to find happiness just like you. I will be tolerant and respectful of your life choices because you have to live by them, and my choices will never effect you unless you allow them. Thank you for reading through this, I hope it is helpful in deciding your interest in me.

    The undiscovered (and elusive) 4. You. If you've really read this far in all this rabble, then you're probably wondering what I am expecting from interactions with you, what I want, or what my ideal individual is that I'd like to meet. Let's be frank, this is an online/mobile networking site designed to allow people to meet across distances. You can be anyone and anything a mind can think of and words can describe, your intelligence and mastery of this vocabulary seem crucial to being able to express yourself and your desire succinctly. Among being intelligent, I should hope that you are open and accepting to the world I may be introducing you to...however, if you are not real, that will become obvious eventually, disappointing everyone involved. Know who you are and be confident in your experiences...it's good to stop seeing mistakes negatively and identify them as chances to learn. Going to more personal considerations, you would be a submissive/masochistic female, know why you identify as such, approximately age: 25-35 and happy.

Fantasies

Our desired relationship is a poly M/f/f triad.

Forum Index


Topical Articles:

  1. Clash in Kink-Positivity: Triggers versus Fetish; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1374-clash-in-kink-positivity-triggers-versus-fetish/
  2. Community of Babel; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1440-community-of-babel/

    • (CoB) Labels are Your Friend, not Life Partner; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1461-cob-labels-are-your-friend-not-life-partner/
    • (CoB) Listen and Ask Questions; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1538-cob-listen-and-ask-questions/

      Tales:

  3. A Night Out; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1586-a-night-out/
  4. The Crying Game; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1748-the-crying-game/
    • (CG) Round One; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1769-cg-round-one/
    • (CG) Round Two; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1793-cg-round-two/
    • (CG) Round Three; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1830-cg-round-three/
    • (CG) Round Four; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1954-cg-round-four/
  5. The Shoe Shine Girl; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1364-the-shoe-shine-girl/
  6. The Wolf and bunny; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1517-the-wolf-and-bunny/
  7. Third Person; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1393-third-person/
  8. "Yes"; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1711-yes/

    Poetry:

  9. Crux; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1550-crux/
  10. "I know why she cries"; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1416-i-know-why-she-cries/

Fetish.com gives you…


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Cade
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  • 17.10.2018 16:39:50
  • Male/Female (43/28)
  • Lakeland
  • Cade
Cade
icon-wio Cade found their first BDSM archetype!
  • 17.10.2018 16:02:36
  • Male/Female (43/28)
  • Lakeland
Cade
icon-wio Cade wrote something in the forum
  • 05.10.2018 1:04:38
  • Male/Female (43/28)
  • Lakeland
Anyone know of any kinky Halloween parties coming up?

Rocky Horror Picture Show with shadow play! Super excited, it's been years since I've been able to do RHPS.

Cade
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  • 18.09.2018 17:22:51
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  • Lakeland
  • Cade
Cade
icon-wio Cade has picked up their birthday gift
  • 29.08.2018 3:35:06
  • Male/Female (43/28)
  • Lakeland
Cade
icon-wio Cade has picked up their birthday gift
  • 08.04.2018 1:32:43
  • Male/Female (43/28)
  • Lakeland
Cade
icon-wio Cade wrote something in the forum
  • 22.03.2018 0:31:20
  • Male/Female (43/28)
  • Lakeland
BDSM 3WAY

Yes, we stayed together after. It improved the relationship in many ways, including increased trust, deeper communication, and just the overall fun of the experience shared which brought us closer together.

Cade
icon-wio Cade wrote something in the forum
  • 22.03.2018 0:28:03
  • Male/Female (43/28)
  • Lakeland
Throuples

I've been in two M/f/f triad relationships: one that lasted a year and the other lasted four years, both full time, live-in situations. Neither of these were "spot on", as you say, but we each enjoyed and appreciated the time and intimacy we shared. Every relationship, be it mono or poly, can be Read more… problematic. A common myth we hear about poly relationships is they all end badly; truth be told, I don't see many relationships that end well! Of course, poly dynamics aren't much different than mono, it's just the additional consideration of an individual involved. Some people will fit the relationship, some won't. Any relationship is only as successful as the energy, effort, and trust the participants invest.

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Cade
icon-wio Cade has uploaded a new photo
  • 12.03.2018 9:00:28
  • Male/Female (43/28)
  • Lakeland
  • Cade
Cade
icon-wio Cade has updated their desires and fantasies info
  • 05.03.2018 0:38:04
  • Male/Female (43/28)
  • Lakeland
Our desired relationship is a poly M/f/f triad.

Forum Index

Topical Articles:

Clash in Kink-Positivity: Triggers versus Fetish; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1374-clash-in-kink-positivity-triggers-versus-fetish/

Community of Babel; Read more… www.fetish.com/community/topic/1440-community-of-babel/

(CoB) Labels are Your Friend, not Life Partner; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1461-cob-labels-are-your-friend-not-life-partner/

(CoB) Listen and Ask Questions; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1538-cob-listen-and-ask-questions/

Tales:



A Night Out; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1586-a-night-out/
The Crying Game; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1748-the-crying-game/

(CG) Round One; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1769-cg-round-one/
(CG) Round Two; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1793-cg-round-two/
(CG) Round Three; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1830-cg-round-three/
(CG) Round Four; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1954-cg-round-four/

The Shoe Shine Girl; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1364-the-shoe-shine-girl/
The Wolf and bunny; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1517-the-wolf-and-bunny/
Third Person; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1393-third-person/

"Yes"; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1711-yes/

Poetry:

Crux; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1550-crux/
"I know why she cries"; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1416-i-know-why-she-cries/
Cade
icon-wio Cade created a status update
  • 04.03.2018 12:55:23
  • Male/Female (43/28)
  • Lakeland
The problem with having a vision is sometimes you're alone in the view.
LikeWildRose7, Mrchristopher70
Cade
(CG) Round Four
(Preamble: This is the fifth chapter of “the Crying Game”.)
The dark gentleman stood looming over her in silence with his arms tucked behind his back, watching her as she mopped up the piddle puddle, embarrassingly on hands and knees. The girl grumbled as she sopped up the mess in painful agony, Read more…wanting so much to look up at his smug face, but she was far too humiliated to even lift her head. Instead, she scrubbed at the rough floor, trying to will the wetness to disappear, and with it, her shame. This did not happen, of course, and the discoloration of damp concrete only seemed to grow, until she was wiping closer to him. For a mere moment, the bashful girl let her hand brush against his boot; the soft oiled leather sent shivers through her, erupting from where it came in contact with her pinkie finger.
If he noticed, he made no indication of such as he turned to return to the head of the table once the clean-up was complete. The girl whimpered as she rose to her feet aquiver, steadying herself on the table edge. Her vision seemed strangled, as if staring far off into the distance through a tube. Several minutes passed as the girl fruitlessly tried to clear her head; as the fog drifted from her mind, the sudden awareness of her situation astounded her: she was about to begin another round, with more than half the game to go. She inhaled deep, holding back her tears as she took her position. A shiny box caught her attention as her arms stretched before her; a hatbox in silver wrapping with a large number three scribbled on it sat beside the previously won prizes.
No sooner were her feet on the pegs did she absentmindedly mutter, “Three,” having just seen the digit. Her lips quickly clamped shut and she tried to spy if he had heard the utterance, but it was obviously too late; more over, his deliberate smirk indicated he was aware of her slip up.
“Three it is,” he said as he took the top card, peering at it with a chuckle. The Five of Diamonds fell to the discard pile, taunting her into frustration. “My five with your three make eight strikes. Which instrument will you experience this time?” his words were measured, exacting that she felt them to her very core. She wanted so much to quit. So much, that she was sure that if she opened her mouth, only her surrender would come out.
“Black jack,” left her lips to her confusion. The girl glared at him as if the demented sorcerer had cast a spell on her tongue, but she knew better. No doubt, he was some sort of a magician, able to twist the reality around him to suit his desires, able to manipulate her emotions to work against herself, able to turn exquisite pain into seductive pleasure. As she watched him collect the toy she had decided upon, she knew she wasn't quitting because of herself. This was for her, and damn the sadist, she would see it to the end; if she was able.
“Interesting choice,” his voice held all the mirth of Satan claiming a sinner's eternal soul. The rustling of swift movements blew the wind past her, but he was too quick with it for her to tell what it was, just that it had a peculiar sound, like fronds beating against each other in the wind. “You have picked one of your preferred toys, although a more cruel variation. This is a flogger, of course,” his arm extended forward, proffering her a view of the item, its long falls dangling inches from her face. “The strands are about 30 inches long, made from thick, but flexible, rubber. It would be extremely thuddy, except the falls are cut zigzagged, rather than straight,” he passed his fingers through it as if thick tresses of hair, showing off its exotic texture. “This causes it to have a distinct sensation, like being ground up or sheared. It can feel quite abrasive and coarse, very atypical of the common flogger.”
The dark gentleman spun the instrument around himself effortlessly as he took his position directly behind her. The flogger danced around him in sinewy commotion; graceful and deliberate, but the strands rattled and twisted deviously, the churning of blades in a blender. The sound intimidated her; she was about to step buttocks-first into a meat grinder. The heat of his palm settling on her lower back restored some of her resolve, at least. That was until he began his practiced preamble, “This is going to hurt, perhaps more so for the abuse your ass has already endured. You may cry, scream, and cuss. You can curse me, even. Do not move from that spot. Count loud and clear.”
The tumultuous swoosh was her only alert to the incoming flagellation. As the flogger found its mark, it was as if thousands of tiny, razor-sharp teeth had viciously attacked her bottom, gnashing and tearing at her raw flesh in back swing. She shouted “One,” although more out of anger than pain. It grated at her, made her want to swat at the small beasties chomping at her bum. The next strike caught her unexpectedly from the other angle, focused more on the opposite cheek. It shocked her; not like the stun gun, of course, but in a more primal way which caused her to bite her lip for a few seconds before saying, “Two.” Closing her eyes tight, she imaged the sensation similar to being slowly eaten by a school of piranha as the next hit pulled her to one side. He was swinging the flogger in front of him, alternating from each side to better balance the strike pattern, leaving her little time to cry out “Three” before the next thrash. The girl's eyes misted over, shimmering in the lamplight, and her voice sounded hoarse as she squealed, “Four!”
His movement was calculated, body swaying with the swing back and forth to maximize the impact yet minimize his effort. As he leaned forward, the hits only intensified, jostling the girl's pained ass from each side, the strikes alternating across her bottom. “Five,” her count continued, picking up speed to match his momentum. “Six!” The licks felt like a cheese grater or a thorny thicket slapping her ass. She wanted to cry, but the tears weren't there; rather, the conflagration spreading across her flesh acted to evaporate them, causing her blood to boil and body to steam. “Seven!” She was aroused and upset because of it. She wanted to cum so badly that she was bucking her hips with his rhythm, “Eight!”
Then, it stopped. The girl was left writhing and mewing as the sadist returned the toy. She watched him with the best come-fuck-me eyes she could muster, but he seemed oblivious. “Another round completed, you may move,” was his only response in a somewhat dispassionate tone. Carrying another hatbox wrapped in shiny paper, the number four marked on the sides, he returned to his spot with his deck of cards, placing the prize with the others won.
The girl stood frustrated for a romp; although her legs shaky, they were able to hold her upright. She brought her hands to rub her butt. Instead of soothing the agony she felt, simply touching the flesh caused her breath to catch. She wasn't sure if she could sit down, and was suddenly glad that wasn't a requirement. Lightly grazing the raised abrasions within the wounded area with her fingertips, it dawned on her: the Bastard had tenderized her ass! It irritated her how wet that made her pussy, and she blushed feeling his cold stare take in her naked form.
“Half done,” his words snapped her mind back to the game, just before her fingers found her outer labia in their idle caress. “Do you need a few minutes, or shall we continue?”
(To be continued...)
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Deleted profile Such an amazing story, desperate for the next chapter
Such an amazing story, desperate for the next chapter
LikeCade · 16.03.2018 8:07:51
Loulabelle
Loulabelle I log on everyday hoping for the next chapter! ADDICTED!!! I log on everyday hoping for the next chapter! ADDICTED!!!
LikeCade · 03.03.2018 11:48:29
Firewitch
Firewitch i love her getting turned on by this, she can see the light at the end of the tunnel!!
Fabulous
Fire 🔥 i love her getting turned on by this, she can see the light at the end of the tunnel!!
Fabulous
Fire 🔥
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Cade
icon-wio Cade has updated their desires and fantasies info
  • 01.03.2018 13:26:51
  • Male/Female (43/28)
  • Lakeland
Our desired relationship is a poly M/f/f triad.

Forum Index

Topical Articles:

Clash in Kink-Positivity: Triggers versus Fetish; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1374-clash-in-kink-positivity-triggers-versus-fetish/

Community of Babel; Read more… www.fetish.com/community/topic/1440-community-of-babel/

(CoB) Labels are Your Friend, not Life Partner; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1461-cob-labels-are-your-friend-not-life-partner/

(CoB) Listen and Ask Questions; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1538-cob-listen-and-ask-questions/

Tales:



A Night Out; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1586-a-night-out/
The Crying Game; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1748-the-crying-game/

(CG) Round One; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1769-cg-round-one/
(CG) Round Two; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1793-cg-round-two/
(CG) Round Three; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1830-cg-round-three/
(CG) Round Four;

The Shoe Shine Girl; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1364-the-shoe-shine-girl/
The Wolf and bunny; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1517-the-wolf-and-bunny/
Third Person; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1393-third-person/

"Yes"; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1711-yes/

Poetry:

Crux; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1550-crux/
"I know why she cries"; www.fetish.com/community/topic/1416-i-know-why-she-cries/
Cade
icon-wio Cade wrote something in the forum
  • 19.02.2018 9:45:18
  • Male/Female (43/28)
  • Lakeland
I know it's fetish.com but

Actually, I find the site refreshingly NOT only about sex. Even the chat! It does get rather racy, but it tends to stay intelligent which I greatly appreciate. Many thanks to the Admin and mod teams.

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